...If you Absolutely Know that your are Talented enough to be a Career-Type; You should Go For It. They can Always Catch-Up with you Later and Join you.They have to Learn that Your Life is Important,Too.You Matter, You Count.It's your Day In The Sun, and those Days are Very Limited,let me Tell you.Why be Old With Regrets...and tending to Blame someone else,for your,"Missing Out". Go.> Go>GO!!! Westie.
Well, it depends...I guess you could take the moral of the movie "A View From the Top". A girl falls in love with a guy, then chooses her career over staying with him and then regrets it in the end. She goes to him at the end and says she wants to stay with him in Cleveland (despite the fact that she left him in Cleveland, because she thought it was career-suicide) and he asks her how she could be happy in Cleveland. She says "Cause you're in Cleveland", they kiss, happy ending...so the moral of the story is that going away doesn't make any sense if you don't have that someone to come home to...following your head instead of your heart will ultimately leave you feeling empty emotionally.
That is an individual choice, there's no right or wrong answer to the ?. For many folks today career comes first, & nothing can or will stand in the way of achieving the goals they've set. With the divorce rate sky high, & the likelihood of divorce almost a given, it makes sense to be self sufficient. In the past women didn't have any choice but to stay married, to leave cost $. "Love" is easier to find than a career paying good $. The other side of the coin holds the romantic ideas about love. We all want to find that 1 special person to grow old with, & the job is not their main priority. Love conquers all sounds nice but is it true--only you can answer that?
Why are you making the only location decision? What is the reason he can't move with you. Money is huge reason must couples split, combined with regretting missed opportunity, it could be a disaster. It take's a certain kind of person not to become resentful. Can you go and try it out? The fact that you are asking says you don't have strong enough feelings to stay. Good luck.