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My girlfriend cheated on me around our 3 months of being together and i just found out (its our 6 months today) what do i do i love her?

She says that she will never do it again and that she loves me but i dont know. . . I want to be together with her forever and she says she does to but I'm afraid of being cheated on again

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"Cheating" is a vague term here.
Personally, cheating requires marriage and sexual contact.
(If you are not married, it's not cheating... in my world.)
Apparently you aren't married ....
So, please tell me what she actually did that was "cheating" in your book?
Did she go out with another guy? Dance with him? Sleep with him?
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If she had "a date" with another guy, chill. If she f---ed another guy, it's your call.

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Cheese_Man77
I agree with da smitty!!!!
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I suggest you hold a serious conversation with her about her past behaviour. Find out what lead to the cheating and try on improving on that. Since she promised not to cheat again I think you should give her a chance to proof herself faithful.

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I've never been in a situation like this, but I'd say if you think you love her, just be a little more cautious with her, and if you don't think she is continuing to cheat on you, then trust her a little bit more. But don't sell your heart until you know you have the exact change.

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lovemydodge

Turn and run

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lol.
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I've been cheated on too many times so I say if I were you I'd break it off you sound like a smart and intelligent guy you don't need to put up with that.find someone that won't hurt you.

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So she cheated on you and lied about it for three months? Time to say good bye.

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will you always have that in the back of your mind? Cheating is one of those betrayals that are hard to get over completely. Better move on if you don't think you can. Sorry:(

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