Disappointment happens. If you enjoyed being with him, that's what counts. Love includes working out problems. People give up too easy these days. Notice how there are lots of breakups and divorces these days. It's because people are too lazy to work out problems. If someone abuses you, that's a reason to leave that person. If someone disappoints you, your job as a girlfriend is to help him improve. If you do that, then you will both be happy. Now there are different circumstances, if he doesn't try at all to make you happy even after confronting him about it. Then he might be a lost cause. My girlfriend never gave me a second chance. And since she didn't tell me what I did wrong, I don't know what to improve. You make the choice, and good luck!

iloveeminem: 1 year ago

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Personally, I don't think you should have given him another chance because as they say, once a cheater, always a cheater. However, this doesn't hold much water and people do change. Since you already took him back, perhaps it would be best if you let him prove himself worthy of your trust.

You didn't say how old you both are...that makes a big difference. It's all about maturity and character. Remember, we are BORN with our personality-but we are RESPONSIBLE for our character. You already know deep inside what his character is based on how he handles other parts of his life...does he lie a lot, drink alcohol, do drugs, have a JOB, PAY HIS OWN WAY??? and on and on. Break up now and set your eyes on the person who you deserve if he can't live these simple rules of CHARACTER. Otherwise your heart will be broken over and over because cheating takes on MANY FORMS besides being with someone else and you know this or you wouldn't have asked. Sorry to be so blunt, but I know what I'm saying. Prevent a lifetime of sorrow. On the other hand, if you can prove to yourself he's an upstanding man, you can try it-but this doesn't pass the smell test. Sometimes we have to pay for our mistakes. Don't pay for the mistake of going back with him. He knew better. And he will just have to learn his mistake the hard way. This is life.