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I'm having some real relationship problems! Right now I'm dating a guy who is 14 living in my neighborhood. Who i've dated before we broke up and now were back together. The thing that's bothering me is that my bf is always saying were never breaking up right? Never???? And that starts to bug me because I'm moving on Saturday and I'm tempted to break up with him but I don't want to break his heart AGAIN!
Also, For the past month or 2 I've been talking to a guy. (We've talked on ask awhile back and now we've shared email and started IMing a lot) I've started to have feelings for him. I really care about him and I swear I love him. The thing is he lives in Texas. We talk everyday for a really long time. The guy I like (not my boyfriend) knows I like him. I just don't know what to do. If I break up w/ my current bf do I date the other guy in Texas? Or do I stick w/ my bf now? Please help!!!!!

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keep them both its not like youll ever see the guy in texas and u dont want to break ur current ones heart just have them both if u say ur moving u might not see any of them again.So no harm done.

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That is one decision you will have to make on your own because only you know how much you value your current boyfriend and how much you like the new guy. Think about it and f you like the new guy better then do as it seems right to you. There is no point being stuck in a relationship with no love for the other person.

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Ok. Thank you!
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Say each ones name And hold your hand to your heart and which ever one gets beats faster is yours<3

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Lol. Thanks I actually just did it!
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do the rose thing
"he loves me ,he loves me not '
it really works!! i did it with the guy that i was dating in texas and it turned out that "he loved me not"
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lol
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sounds like a soap opera :P

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mar30
lol. thanks. that was helpful xD
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i hate relationships, too much heart break :(
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mar30
Ya..
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well anyways i hope you figure it out, if i were you i would stay single for a while, your way to young to be worrying about relationship issues
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mar30
Ok. Thanks! :)
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btw keoke ur cute(:
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aww, well ty (: i wuold say the same thing buuuuuut idk wat you look like D: im sure your still a beautiful person (:
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i tried to put a pic up but it didnt go up for some reason): and thaanks(: so wats up
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nm, jst got done taking a text in my math class, pretty sure i beasted it ..>
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oh im settin in the library with my ftiends
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mar30
awwww looks like u2 are getting along xP
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^^ lol hes cute dont u think?
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hah you jelly @mar30?:P
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mar30
haha. lol. why the helll wuld i? xP lol.
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ikr well you should email me(:
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but.....but....im in school D:
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oh......after?
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sure, i guess (:
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ok its on my profile ttyl gotta go to class):
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nooooooo you look on my profile lol my email thingy is on my profile
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uhh ok(:
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Stick with yours cuz ur never gonna meet this other kid in texas

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kk.
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Now Marie you know why I say short relationships won't work at all!!
you'll leave your current guy anyway and you both gonna break up...I know this is rude but it's true...and this guy in Texas I don't encourage you to be in a relationship with him either because the same thing will happen.
Have a nice day :)

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Anytime lady :)
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And remember sweet Maria I'll always be there for you when you need help and there's no one around :)
Take care :)
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haha. tnx :)
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I say if moving to a place where you won't see the current bf dump him ... I mean break up with him... And just be single for a while. Live your lady freedom for a little bit.

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Wow..........(speechless)

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Maria..........why didn't you tell me................AGAIN..............


WOW...........please................i'm not gonna be able to help in my state of mind right now........................................................

I can't believe it..................i can't believe it........wow......

You kept this from me.................... ALL OF THIS.....................
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mar30
gosh arun
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what? what maria???
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mar30
:-( im sry
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arun i've been hurt to many times and if i told u this u wuld've left me i know it. i was gnna tell u yesterau but i didnt have the time to
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Why would i leave you if you told me you're inlove?

That doesn't make sense........ I'm your frapping friend Maria?!?!

You go and tell me the same way as the world??? WHAT THE FRAP MARIA!
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because i tell you im talking to a friend online and u dont respond to my IM'S because im talking to one other person? thats bull $$hit!!!! u talk to Emma, and Nikki when you and I talk you dont see me leaving u do u?
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heyhey.
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hey
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HIYA!!!! how r u?
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How've you been?
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I'm better now since we're talking! :) U?
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i'm sorry i'm still thinking about everything.. but i'm going to try and think you were just doing what you thought was right....like you always do
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It's ok...I'm sorry too!!!!! <3 *hug*
What are ya up to? =)
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Recognition day at work.. ?We ate a lot pasta. cake ice cream. pizza.... *burp*
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mar30
haha. awesome! omg i made pizza for lunch!!! :)
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You made your decision yet?
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mar30
No. I don't really want to talk about it right nowif that's ok?????
Have u talked to Haileigh? shes been emailing me! :)
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No we haven't
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mar30
Awwww. :( ok. hey so whats new? =) What did you do over the weekend?
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Not much....I was gonna say was just missing you but that doesn't really make sense now.... and don't think about what im saying too much.
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no u can say it :) It wuld make me feel good
i gotta go. bye
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you always just go...i bet that doesn't happen with.................*sigh*
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mar30
hey thats not true. I had to go because I was at work and someone was coming over. Im sorry im rly busy cuz of moving and stuff
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hey
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hi
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mar30
NIKKI!!!!!!!!! hey girl
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heyy, watcha doin
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watching a show u?
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Nikki, im am on my way in the door i just dropped Zach off.
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Nuthing much Maria and ok Tre
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Maria??
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ya sorry im watching a show
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ohh
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lol. ill be back on later
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Nikki I love you baby mama!! and hi Maria, im trevon
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i love you to baby daddy and you cud have told me that you are sitting right next to me and Maria dont leave me i will be bored without you ( no offense Trevon)
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hiya trevon
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You should remain single for awhile,especially if your moving. Long distance relationships and online relation are really not worth it.You may find someone special in your new location.

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THANKS! :) take care\n

go giants
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Are you still going to be on Ask!? What you need to do is come to Pittsburgh and wear the Black n Gold and have the Steelers blood flowing throughout you,you will feel invincible!!!!!!
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I win!!!! :) :) :P
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mar30
haha. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
I will never EVER EVER EVER do that!!!!!!!!!!!!! not for all the money in the world lol
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I said I would root for the Rangers for you!! How about them!!!! I'll keep on cheering!!!!
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mar30
haha. lol GO RANGERS
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I'm sure the Rangers and Pens will keep each other company when the watch the Stanley Cup!!!! Just kidding ;)
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mar30
haha. Rangers will win the S.C and Crosby will be crying like a baby!
Man I really hate him! He's a cheap player~
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I agree,a lot of Pittsburgh fans thought he should have given up his captain position.
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haha. ok good at least we agree on something.lol xP
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do wateva feels right....dont just go on wat we say, you do wat feels right to you :)

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thanks!!<3 how are ya greg?
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good! you?
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fine thanks! whats up?
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nm..just bored!!!! lol
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omg same here! i found out that my sister is having her 2nd child! :)
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wow.....nice..lol
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haha. yup yup.. :Dso whats new w/u?
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You're 14, why are you talking about love? You do not know what love is. Stop trying to grow up so fast, I promise you, you won't be with this guy forever. As he gets older his hormones will start raging and be chasing after any girl with a pulse. Break up with him!! He'll get over it.

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Thank you! :) And im 13 xP
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See you're still young, you have plenty of time to fall in love, don't rush it. When you find true love it will be the best feeling in the world. Until then let the guys chase you :)
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haha thanks! :) That was very helpful!
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No problem :) I work kids your age at a middle school, so I hear these things a lot. I'm a guy so I know how boys your age think. Well actually they don't !
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haha. well thank you for helping me :)
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No problem :)
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im maria:)
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OMG!!!!!!! im having a long distance relationship with a guy in texas and i just found out that he is a cheater!!!!!
totally stay with the guy you have now!!!

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:( im crying right now :(
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omg im so sorry! whats his name darlin???
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what's the guys name that cheated on you???? :(
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jordan :( sorry i coudent get back 2 u
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he is a horrid person
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awwe its okay we have all been thru this one time or another but we can make it thru
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mar30
AWWWWWWWWWWWW. baby im sorrry
thts horrible
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yea ik
he had like 5 other gf not counting me
1 of his friends told me :(
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never trust those texans
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mar30
OMG thats horrible!
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lol heyy im from texas!!! but i kno wht you mean
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okay thanx u guys but i2g2 ttyl
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never mind
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ohh ok
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so maria what hav u decided 2 do?
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o and sorry nikkiluvsyou but i meant dont trust texan boys
because jordan is not the first texan boy who has cheated
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umm...heylooo ??
guys?
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stay with the guy now and STOP BEIN A CHEATER BECAUSE KARMAS A b*itch and sheell come back witchu

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tnx
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Yes karma is what you said.
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first YEEEEAAAAA TEXASSSS and long distance relationships dont work very well but if you want to try its up to you but dont let yourself become to attached to either one because you cant really tell if they cheat

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ok. good answer. thnx
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Long distance relationships never work! ANd unless you are moving to texas than you should stick with your current bf

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k..tnx
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I agree with Ninzagirl long distance relationships never work, and you can't date online cause you'd never see each other unless you did video chat and could never go anywhere, but it really is your choice do you want your current boyfriend? Or do you want this guy in texas? You could date online but i'm just saying it's not going to work! I would just stay close friends with this guy on ask.
Hope I Helped! :)

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you helped tnx. :)
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Make a pros and cons list, it sounds really stupid but most of the time it works wonders.

That's how I got the courage to ask my best friend out so it might work with your situation now.

Good luck and I hope this helps some.

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thanks darlin! :)
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Break up with him. If you are in love with someone else you'll be torturing yourself. It might seem selfish but the whole point of dating is finding your soul-mate. He'll get over you.

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Jar30

Well... This is news. Why mar? we need to talk. why god?

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hey were talking and im not going on ask.com ANYMORE! to much trouble and drama. i love you
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