To convince your mother to let you have a girlfriend, show her that you are responsible. This can be through taking care of yourself and obeying what she says. Explain that a girl will enable you discover yourself more as she spends time with you.
Well let me tell u something, lot of kids think that they can handle a relationship but you are still a bit young. Im not saying to not have one but just be smart and not be stupid. I'm 15 and I'm fine without a relationship, because I have to much on my plate with school and what not. So like I said be smart.
I'm a girl, but this worked for me so, yeah. I just kind of brought my boyfriend home one day, and I was like, "hey mom, this is Gavin." and she pursed her lips, but didn't scold me in front of my boyfriend. Then when he left, I think my mom just forgot to scold me or something, so she's just kind of gotten used to it. And she never technically gave me permission, either.
I am not allowed to date yet either, I can understand. But what my dad has told me (is actually a long discussion) is that it is not a good idea to date till your older. Its very hard to explain, but also nobody does real dates till they can take a relationship very seriously.
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I get all I am about to tell u from about 4 different places: Tell ur mom all that is in common. Tell her u think u r old enough and mature. You know u r too young to have "it" (sorry I just Had to put tht lol) tell her all that. IMPORTANT: it is best to tell her when she is happy. Impress her Be prepared Be smart Be cool Be honest GET HER TRUST FIRST go to a mixed gender party (by ppl ur mom knows and trust) and give all info. ( time, date, #of ppl there, emergency numbers, trusted parents, etc.) she will probaly ask why so a good thing to do is list ten reasons why like on a paper (1. U can see old friends 2. Meet ur friends parents and other friends 3. Have time away from the house) If she doesent know or approve someone show her their yearbook photo or FB ( check it b4 urself b4 u show her!) if she says no. It's no. Don't add on and don't ask again any other time. It's no. If she says yes and u make it through the night alright (suggest for her to come by for a few minutes) then she has gained ur trust. She may let u have a gf then. :)
Ugh children these days! Okay I'm 15 but so what? Why must you have a relationship at such a young age? Can't you just wait till you're a bit older? Say, 16ish 17ish is pretty okay. But not now, kid. Your mom is right, you're too young for a relationship. Sorry.
I know some people might think u are too young like your mom but bro..you sorta are :/ But if you really want a girlfriend and if that's what will make you happy tell your mom that it's your life and you can do whatever you want. YOLO. But also respect your mother :) Goodluck.
dude skrew these bitches just ask the girl if she can or wants to come over some time introduce her to your mom and when she leaves tell your mom that you like that girl and you are thinking of asking her out tell her that you really like her and she makes you feel good when your around her and that your ready and ask her if she had a boy friend. tell her that your life isn't like you want it that you want to be happy. good luck and don't let that girl go. ok I missed my chance and my life is hell now so don't do what I did