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How to convince my mom to letting me have a girlfriend

my mom says im to young-_- but im 13 i think i can have a relationship

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Listen to your Mom, you're too young, and SHE's too young to be a grandmother. If she says you can't do it, you say "Yes Ma'am. Thank you for taking it under consideration" and do as you're told.

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How old are you?
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42
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:))) green!
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To convince your mother to let you have a girlfriend, show her that you are responsible. This can be through taking care of yourself and obeying what she says. Explain that a girl will enable you discover yourself more as she spends time with you.

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Your Mom is right.

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Your mom doesn't want to see you grow up so fast but just say i'm ready trust me

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Well let me tell u something, lot of kids think that they can handle a relationship but you are still a bit young. Im not saying to not have one but just be smart and not be stupid. I'm 15 and I'm fine without a relationship, because I have to much on my plate with school and what not. So like I said be smart.

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"Mom its either i go out with her or i will go out with him in the future" "what?" Mom you heard me. also its a boyfriend and girlfriend thing not sex

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13? I think you are rushing yourself. That's a little bit young. It's okay, not like you are 10, but 13 still seems young.

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Listen too the voice of wisdom she's right

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Correct!
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I agree with your mum ,she is right, you are too young to enter a prospective relationship

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I'm a girl, but this worked for me so, yeah. I just kind of brought my boyfriend home one day, and I was like, "hey mom, this is Gavin." and she pursed her lips, but didn't scold me in front of my boyfriend. Then when he left, I think my mom just forgot to scold me or something, so she's just kind of gotten used to it. And she never technically gave me permission, either.

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I am not allowed to date yet either, I can understand. But what my dad has told me (is actually a long discussion) is that it is not a good idea to date till your older. Its very hard to explain, but also nobody does real dates till they can take a relationship very seriously.

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Listen to your mom she's the one who knows best and beside that short relationships won't work...at all!!!
Have a nice day :)

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I get all I am about to tell u from about 4 different places:
Tell ur mom all that is in common. Tell her u think u r old enough and mature. You know u r too young to have "it" (sorry I just Had to put tht lol) tell her all that.
IMPORTANT: it is best to tell her when she is happy.
Impress her
Be prepared
Be smart
Be cool
Be honest
GET HER TRUST FIRST
go to a mixed gender party (by ppl ur mom knows and trust) and give all info. ( time, date, #of ppl there, emergency numbers, trusted parents, etc.) she will probaly ask why so a good thing to do is list ten reasons why like on a paper (1. U can see old friends 2. Meet ur friends parents and other friends 3. Have time away from the house)
If she doesent know or approve someone show her their yearbook photo or FB ( check it b4 urself b4 u show her!) if she says no. It's no. Don't add on and don't ask again any other time. It's no. If she says yes and u make it through the night alright (suggest for her to come by for a few minutes) then she has gained ur trust. She may let u have a gf then. :)

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Ugh children these days! Okay I'm 15 but so what? Why must you have a relationship at such a young age? Can't you just wait till you're a bit older? Say, 16ish 17ish is pretty okay. But not now, kid. Your mom is right, you're too young for a relationship. Sorry.

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I know some people might think u are too young like your mom but bro..you sorta are :/ But if you really want a girlfriend and if that's what will make you happy tell your mom that it's your life and you can do whatever you want. YOLO. But also respect your mother :) Goodluck.

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dude skrew these bitches just ask the girl if she can or wants to come over some time introduce her to your mom and when she leaves tell your mom that you like that girl and you are thinking of asking her out tell her that you really like her and she makes you feel good when your around her and that your ready and ask her if she had a boy friend. tell her that your life isn't like you want it that you want to be happy. good luck and don't let that girl go. ok I missed my chance and my life is hell now so don't do what I did

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