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DebraJarrellScott
DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago

Is it fair to take this relationship slow just because I jumped into last one sex and all fast

Good and loving man! Great job. But he doesn't understand why I won't let him buy me anything. I'm fine. Please help

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kryslips
kryslips: 1 year ago

explain to him you want to take things slow and explain why. even though it may be a messy story that you may not want certain people to hear but it hink if you really like him and he really likes you he will want to know why you are pushing him away and why you may be a bit distant

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DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago via iPhone
Well thank u for the answer it helped but if he doesn't want to except our moving slow then I guess he will b n my past also. I am a very private person and how do u tell someone u were lied to and made a fool of for almost 2 years? I don't even discuss my past with him because it doesn't matter who I use to be what I think is important is what it taught me and who I have become because of that relationship. So again Thank u very much and take care whomever!!!!!
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kryslips: 1 year ago
who you were in tha pst has made you who you are now. even though this person threated you like dirt means you can be stronger from if. i have had dicrepancies in my past and i have found that if i hide them and keep them to myself, then it is weighing on my mind. i have told my current partner all my dirty little secrets and we are closer for it. good luck.
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DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago via iPhone
Well if you re-read what I wrote u would comprehend it better because it says it doesn't really matter who I use to be but what matters is who I have become. And in other words what didn't kill me made me stronger. And I don't have anything to hide and my past is irrelevant.it may make you closer now with a sob story but later on when you have a little argument it will b throwed up to you. So feel closer now but later you'll regret it and b pi$$ed. Just saying.
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kryslips: 1 year ago
i wasn't giving you any kind of sob story so dont get defensive. if you want to let this weigh on you go for i couldn't give a damn, i just thought i was trying to help
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DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago via iPhone
I didn't mean u were giving me a sob story. Her! Sometimes men give women these sob stories when u meet for first time to maybe want sex on 1st date and If I was lied to the whole time I would want reasons why and closure. But I'm happy with my BESTIE for now.
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DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago via iPhone
Nothing is weighing heavy on my head that ended 10 months ago I am happy! Very happy as a matter of fact!
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DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago via iPhone
And you did help me Thanks and I'm sorry.
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kryslips: 1 year ago
all godd. was just a misunderstanding.
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DebraJarrellScott: 1 year ago via iPhone
And I know they didn't give a damn. They didnt even care to just tell the one their with now and their family things that I thought were private and between us. Sexually even. It just seems in this day and time to me that everyone is playing games and that maybe I should have just sit back and enjoyed and played rite along. But oh we'll nothing is weighing heavy on me just private things that were told and I've came to terms that it was lies and nothing was the truth and no wonder a person doesn't trust and is insecure. Because #1 I have nevertheless had security and I have never had anyone to depend on except myself and my sister at times. But we as people put a smile on our face and hope that things get better and take one day at a time and go forward. Have more now than what I did because of a good friend of mine that I appreciate and hope to pay back soon. But I can't help not having much respect for them because we were to b honest if
they found someone else and vice versa. But maybe I'll get all the respect back one day. But I am thankful and grateful and I owe them so much money that they will get back come he$$ or high water and I have faith now and learned a valuable lesson. So I feel good that something at least did come out of it. We learn from our mistakes. And do not drink anything more than a glass of Austi-Spumanti And just that makes a person feel good and not care what anyone says, laugh at, or makes fun of them. It is a pretty and lovely day today. And my mental status is good.! Lol
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DebraJarrellScott: 11 months ago via iPhone
Just re-read so do you krislips mean that who treated me like this is admitting it now that I was right? They treated me like a ----- and like dirt?
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