Sorry about your circumstance. The best thing would be to seek advice from a qualified attorney about what you can and cannot receive as compensation for your divorce. Sometimes lawyers will not charge for this if you explain your situation, another possible help is a friend in the business or family. This is also a cheap way to get free legal advice. You can also ask on sites like http://www.lawyers.com/ask_a_lawyer/ask_a_question/index.php.

Those both sound like reasonable requests and the trade off of not wanting a share of his 401k is seemingly reasonable too given the short length of the marriage and your age. You are wise not to try to battle this out in court and stick it to him. It would only cost ridiculous amounts of money with little satisfaction gained. I would ask for recommendations from friends and interview several lawyers..Most do not charge for the initial consultation and it allows you to see who you think is like minded and you trust. Good luck! Been there.

There are also mediators which can be cheaper than attorneys. If you tell him that in exchange for not asking fir 401k or alimony, you want compensation for thecar, he should jump at it! Don't know if your state has "no fault" divorce or not, but that could be another factor in the process.
Gone thru it. Hate it. Very smart of you to think abt insurance. Be specific: KEEP PRESENT POLICY ONLY! my agreement said he would keep insurance on me but the jerk turned around & got me $10,000 deductible insurance!

Since You Both Are In Agreement
About NOT Wasting Money On
Lawyers, Then I Would
Recommend That You
Make A WRITTEN List
Of Your Requests
and Ask Him To
Sign Notarized
Copy To Test
Seriousness
On his
Part.

Go to an arbitrator.