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A married man I know has had a crush on me for ages and now he totally ignores me.What is going on?

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If he married then forget about it why you want his attention? Just move on.

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If the man is married as you say, he might have realized that diverting attention to you instead of his wife is wrong. Hence, possibly he has decided to settle and focus on his married life. He may also have given up, if he has been trying to win your attention but has not gotten any response. You should just let him go since he is married.

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He realized you aren't as important as is wife is and he put his attention to her and he noticed you weren't a priority of his.

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He's married. He shouldn't be having a crush on anyone but his wife. And for you, that is best. It's not a good idea to mess with someone who is married.

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Maybe he realized he was doing wrong and wanted to get things straight. If he's married you shouldn't be worrying about it.

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He realized that while he liked you he loves his wife.

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Maybe he finally figured out where the true prize is.

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Maybe he thought you would be good enough for a mistress, never the wife type...better for you..lots of fish in the sea he's married--you don't need drama.

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What has happened? With any luck he's finally realized that as a married man he actually has no business flirting with any women.

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You arent as special as you though after all.

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Just so you know.I do respect the sanctaty of marriage and am not interested in him that way,it's just that we were friends and that seems to be over.
Best not to jump to conclusions isn't it love!
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Sounds like you want to be more than friends tho or you wouldn't be missing the ego stroking he was providing you.
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Re-read you question..said NOTHING about "used to be friends..and now we arent..whats up with that?" I just told you the way it is and you didnt like it...don't try to back peddle out now. He grew up. His wife probably has all the friends he needs now.
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You used the term crush, that is not the same thing as friendship.
He was probably just being nice to you and you built it all up in your head that he was crushing on you. Some guys are just nice, it doesn't mean they have a crush on you.
Oh, and married men DO NOT have single girl friends. Not unless you're friends with both him AND his wife. Just do yourself a HUGE favor and stay away from married men, we wives call girls like that home wreckers and I don't think you'd want to ever be thought of that way.
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@Sexy...Thank you! well put!
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Thank you. I'm married so I felt I should put in my 2 cents.
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@JueJueKarma.There are two kinds of people in this world.Leaders and followers.You are obviously the latter.Grow a spine.
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@ aqua girl - find your own man to obsess over sweetie :)
Don't ask for the general public's opinion if you can't accept the answers you're given.
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@aquaskank...sorry ur feeling got hurt..the truth will do that. sorry u thought the general public would stroke ur ego with this childish question. You arent as cute or as popular as you think you are. Your "male friend" has basically told you this by not "crushing on you". time to grow up. AS stated above..Accept the answers you get...after all you did ask. That's being a grown up.
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Juejue- you should check out her latest question. She's trying to convince me it's about a completely different guy, her question history proves otherwise to me. She's also tried to tell me how insecure I am in my marriage. THAT'S HILARIOUS to both me and my husband.
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Count your blessings.... He's married.... you are single... Find another single person to be infatuated with.

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The real question is: what is going on with you? Why would you be interested in a married man? Find your own mate. He's taken.

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