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zambales
zambales: 1 year ago via Android

Why are people so rude, selfish, disrespectful, & outta contral ?

Would it hurt to be, patient, kind, & understanding, i mean wow ! how much does that cost !!

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cialater
cialater: 1 year ago

we have become a ME orientated society where every one wants a "piece of the pie " whether they pay for it or not. they don't care if they take your portion as well as theirs just so long as they get some. it would hurt no one to be as you ask. I ask the same thing myself. but then many call me old fashioned. you don't have to be old fashioned to be polite and nice and what you suggest. but too many people don't want to think about others. there is the ME attitude and the EVERYONE attitude. personally I like the EVERYONE attitude and I raise my kids that way, but too many others are just looking out for themselves. I think when psychologists told people in general to think of themselves first in order to properly care for their families it got twisted around to BE SELFISH and don't give a crap about anyone else. I'll keep trying and you keep trying, too. Maybe we can make a difference! I say "don't throw stones, build a rock garden. invite in strangers and make new friends."

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Cjkenkel
Cjkenkel: 1 year ago

Some people just don't care about anyone but themselves. Unfortunately, there's really no answer for this.

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MangPidyong
MangPidyong: 1 year ago

sometimes not being rude means taking time to explain things and time means money to a lota people..

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zambales: 1 year ago via Android
Thanx mangpidyo, are u asian
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teeth_fairy: 1 year ago
hoy zambales pinoy din ako hahaha
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guy85
guy85: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 3:20AM on 5/17/2012

People are crazy nowadays but don't worry not everybody rude.

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goldeen: 1 year ago
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guy85: 1 year ago via iPhone
Ty
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UnIqUeGiRl1995415: 1 year ago

It depends on the parents, the 6th graders i know cuss, talk about sex, lies that they got pregnant and they are all those things you mention!!! But not every single person is like this , they're some nice people in this world we just need to find them.

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labelle
labelle: 1 year ago via iPhone

It don't cost a thing if you have a great heart is patient an not rude to people

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epicurious8
epicurious8: 1 year ago via iPhone

Cialater, answered for us all. People suck.

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jtxmyxeverything
jtxmyxeverything: 1 year ago via iPhone

Mean people suck

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guss7116: 1 year ago via Android
yeah they do, big time
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girlsrule123
girlsrule123: 1 year ago

because they are jealous of you and others and are not respecting others to look cool. but they really are not cool!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dolli
Dolli: 1 year ago

its their frustration which makes them rude .. every person has a positive part inside him .. need is to give him space to show this.

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XpertDr: 1 year ago
I am sorry. You must be very very young. The fact is there IS NO INHERENT REASON in your imagination of good without a living God of Hope. LOOK AT THE 66 billion who walked before you talked! 99% of them NEVER thought a woman in a womb had not rights to "choose" life, and freely be born to experience good or bad life, ... but had and STILL do have a right to "experience" a journey. What is GOOD is either GIVEN by a Giver of LIfe, or you make it up to suit your greed and envy.
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teeth_fairy
teeth_fairy: 1 year ago

It's because of PAIN.

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XpertDr: 1 year ago
Stop and ask WHAT IS THE PAIN of no hope in a living personal saving God?
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teeth_fairy: 1 year ago
stop SHOVING your "belief" into other people's throat. That is just rude. OR is that what your "god" has taught you?
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vbmg152: 1 year ago via iPhone
God is a fantasy! He's a fantasy held onto by weak people that need a crutch!
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CaliBorn017: 1 year ago
@vbmg152- Ok thats offensive . You have your belief other people have theirs,. that does NOT mean that you have to be rude and call them weak because news flash buddy...Some of the strongest people in this world hold on to God . God is not a crutch ! He's guidance.
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reapergirl17: 1 year ago
HEY!! hru?
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guss7116: 1 year ago via Android
Teeth!!!! whats new?
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reapergirl17: 1 year ago
haha :) who knos with arun :P
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teeth_fairy: 1 year ago
Hiya Guss! still not in the HAF i see hahaha :-)
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XpertDr
XpertDr: 1 year ago | Last edited at 3:48AM on 5/17/2012

Jesus Who LIVES IS the answer to (read human nature 101 in your Bible) Greed Envy Strife childisness is not "child like-ness" , is it? It is the peace of the living Lord your Creator that is blocked , not by science, but by people who see things that Dr.Martin Luthor King, Jr. saw: Freedom in God causes PRODUCTIVITY that keeps a tyrant and a (not best for people-) Socialism from controlling your GOD GIVEN LIBERTY. There IS a spiritual realm. There ARE truths and rights GIVEN BY YOUR CREATOR!. Test: Where do you get the right to judge "selfish" or "no answer", or declare "outta control"? What makes you to KNOW TRUE good living patterns? You either invented it to fit your day, or God passed it to humans 10,000 years ago....? Why is communism leaving TYRANTS to block "rights"? The same rights even unborn women have as they grow in a womb! Only Jesus GAVE YOU LIFE and RIGHT-Judging mindedness.

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jtxmyxeverything: 1 year ago via iPhone
Amen love this answer <>< God bless you
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goldeen
goldeen: 1 year ago | Last edited at 3:50AM on 5/17/2012

You have to move away from the rude and selfish people. Find out for yourself a friends love you

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kristin_danielle68
kristin_danielle68: 1 year ago via iPhone

Sometimes, kids acting like this could have a bad situation at home.

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aijazquraishi: 1 year ago

Some people are born and brought up like that. They have no etiquettes, totally selfish, frustration, jealousy, They are BINDAST(CAREFREE) they dont care for any one except their own self. They have criminal background, parents divorced, some one is found in dustbins and brought up in ORPHANAGES etc. Some have this in their genes.

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reapergirl17
reapergirl17: 1 year ago

becasue thts just most of them :) and they have probs

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guss7116: 1 year ago via Android
hiya reaper!
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reapergirl17: 1 year ago
ha hey guss long time no see! :) how ya been?jw
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enderwiggin
enderwiggin: 1 year ago via iPhone

Because we are born evil

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lokigodofmischef
lokigodofmischef: 1 year ago | Last edited at 9:17AM on 5/18/2012

some people are just rude like that like this girl in my school but i`m not like that i don`t judge but some people do

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serend1p1ty: 5 months ago via iPhone

I truly think people become like that because of all the pain they're feeling or have felt before. "Hurt people, hurt people" They probably are "selfish" because it seems like that's what everyone else is in this world. In their world, that's what it is.

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