Some states. And as long as you date for a mate and not intrude on eachother physically, then you may be among the 75% of marriages between a man and a woman that remain true to each-other, as stats show VIRGINS by marriage are that 3/4 who remain married. Toughest road that will ever be enjoyed! Testing waters in liv-ins starting without commitments proclaimed to all, for vowed marriage, are the 3.1/2 to 5 yr couples who make up 75% of divorced (marriages of those after "testing") (higher % non-hetero, man-and-woman). There is the power of LIFE and DEATH in the proclamation of your tongue.