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Can LOVE really bring happiness to an unhappy person like me?

I am an ever single male of 20 years of age. I don't think I had the best from the parents a guy have and never could make any relationship though i have many lady friend. But I never liked any single of them and I don't think they even did. I don't even have any true friend cause I found everyone is cheat whenever I trusted them. Even my best friend say bad things about me to her other friends. I really feel depressed. In this situation, can the love of a girl change my life and bring happiness? If yes, then how do I get her. Tell you something, I am desperate to be loved.

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Hello, of course you can be half happy in your life and complete your happiness when you will be loved and in love!! what i mean is that you must first think about how to build your personality to be able to know who is the right one for you, love first yourself without being selfish, think that u need to complete someone and u need to be completed, because the real one you love is the one who u feel completed with her, make sex as a secondary but important need, because if u love the body, the body will never stay the same,

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Love can really bring happiness to an unhappy person like you, but that is, if you get someone who truly loves you. It is considered the best feeling one could ever experience since it gets rid of all your worries when you think of one who cares for you and one you can trust.

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I had the same problem, and made mistakes by just attatching myself to anyone who liked me and ended up getting hurt way more. Finally, I met someone who loves me like everyone deserves to be loved but it took time and I had to find myself first. My REAL self. I think that after you find out who you are, you can then be ready for fate or destiny to lead you down the right path. Not to mock you at all, but try getting a puppy. You'd be amazed how much that little face brightens your day. If you do decide to, pick a breed and read on it first.

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I think it's hard to find true love until you can open yourself up to happiness. I don't think someone else or something can make you happy, I think we need to search deep within ourselves to find out who we are and what we need. It took me a long time to figure this out but the closer I get to making myself happy the better I am able to open up to others and allow new relationships to build. Eventually one will take and you will find a great person to share your life with.

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No I don't think love can make an unhAppy person happy. I think you need to figure out how to make yourself happy first.

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No. Happiness comes from within. What a burden on your partner if she's responsible for making sure you're happy. Have you had any counseling?

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