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What is the best way to ask a girl out? Text or in person?

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The best way to ask a girl out is in person and not through text. You need to wait until you realize it is the appropriate time to do this. Before you speak to her, relax and take a few deep breaths. Attitude is important and therefore, believe in yourself. Smile and make eye contact too.

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dustee
green lets follow each other thanks
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In person. That's way I like it.

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In person!

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simply put green
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text. because girls get a warm feeling inside when you do that and they can keep it forever

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no cause they might think "Wow, he is so scared to ask me for real!"
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nah.
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It doesn't mean anything to us, when you guys do ask us out in text. We usually think, " Oh well he's just a wuss. I can tell already that the relationship that we will be in won't last." That's actually what I think
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Eric just broke up with his girl who lives in a completely different state and then asked all of us on this site how to get her back. They did get back together on this site...DON"T LISTEN TO THAT ERIC...he can't even run his own love life.
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ya they will think "wow, i cant look!"
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JueJueKarma- He? lol I'm a girl. Why does he need to be in a relationship with a girl who is totally far away from him? It's better to be in a relationship with someone who you can see almost everyday. So you can give them comfort, hugs, and other crap. I really don't know why people want to do long-distance relationships, and have a relationship just over the phone or internet lol That's not even called a real relationship either.

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you are so mean to me. we are back together. im worried about her because she got in a horrible car reck and she broke alot! so i dont need to hear your crap
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definitely in person! :)

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green... lets follow each other thanks
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Never on text! Always in person!

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If you ask a girl out in text it look as if you are not serious about the issue you are asking her about but if in person it looks more genuine.

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i would say that this may depend on your relationship with the girl and your confidence level...

If a girl is going to say "yes" to a date she should probably say yes either way...

If shes going to say "no" then i doubt it would make much of a difference if you asked in person.

do whichever you are most comfortable with because your confidence in the conversation probably means more than how, exactly, it is conducted.

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In person.

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Thats common sense

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In person in a text I would think it is a joke and in a text the person friend or family member could be playing around on the person phone in person you would really know who it's coming from.

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in person.

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person they'll think your cheesey in text

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Hehe! im a girl....... tell her how you feel but get to know her firs we HATE it when guys we barely know ask us out and dont text cuz its not cool and it means ya dont got the balls to look her in the eye and its just akward

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What if I spend 3 days camping with her?
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well thats pretty good but how long did you know her before that
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Well we both practice on the same field but I never talked to her before the camping
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In person. If you do it through text, that will mean that you have no balls at all and obviously, the relationship won't last. Asking us girls in person can make your stomach feel like it's all tied up in a knot, but you have to suck it up, be brave, and just do it. Don't be afraid of rejection. Don't be mad if a certain girl rejects you.

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Write her a note and have your friend give it to her...have her check a box either "YES" or "NO".

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@JueJue.. Seems to me that I finally have a fellow BS detective on Eric. I have been calling him out on his BS constantly & we have interesting, uh, discussions :) Good to see i have some support on this one.
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I got ur back...i noticed you were a voice of reason awhile ago! bossing punks around is funnier w a friend! lol
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PERSON.
You should as the girl out in person so she will really know how you feel about her
Things said in person are way different then just texting someone.


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I would say in person

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if u really love her it is better to tell her in person

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Some girls like "bad boys", at least until they discover that bad means bad. The number one girl magnet is being the singer in a band.Sometimes it helps if her dad hates you.

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dat waz horible advise
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in preson and maybe some flowers something small not to much

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In person

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depending if your shy and you know you wil screw it up text them thats how my bf asked me out

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