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My girlfriend ALWAYS wants to do stuff with me, I always do it but sometimes I don't want to, what to I say if I don't want to nicely? ---->

Nicely so I can stay with her!

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Tell her that while you love doing stuff with her you need some time to yourself too to hang out with your own friends or just to be alone doing what you like to do. Not all girls will understand this. Some think if you don't want to spend every waking moment with them it's a sign you don't love them enough. I had a girlfriend in high school like that. You can reassure her by being very attentive to her during the time you do spend together. Hopefully she'll be mature enough to understand your needs. Best of luck, Vinnie.

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Im in high school :)
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Hopefully your high school romance works out better than mine did.
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I dont know :(
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There should be enough honesty in your relationship to allow you to speak your mind if not then this is going the wrong way. You can say, "honey we need to talk, I love to do many activities with you but I need time by myself on some activities just to recharge, I hope you understand."

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Just go on a good day out and say there's stuff i dont want to do

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Just be honest?( Listen babe, today I have plans but we can catch up tonight) or when you guys are alone nicely tell her though you care for her very much sometimes you need some space!!!! Good Luck if you don't do it know it will get worse!

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Well I don't know what kind of stuff, but if you are saying she is to clingy, than you can say to her, honey,baby, sweetheart, I love hanging out with you but I really don't feel like going with you to get your nails done, so why don't you go with Susan and later/tomorrow we can do something.

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You should let her know asap that you need some personal space of your own.. OR.. you will be with her 24/7 & may start to resent her in the long run. If you wait too long to address the issue.. then you run the risk of creating insecurities & unwarranted doubts in her mind.. as to WHY you "All of a Sudden" .. want time to do things on your own? She will wonder... Y now? and you never said anything before? Its important you stand your ground.. (-:

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End it. It will just get worse

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You say "yes ma'am" and do it ... wait, when you say "stuff", you mean sex, right? Or does it mean getting your hair and eyebrows done with her? In that case you man up and say no.

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Just tell her you want to relax with her instead of doing whatever it is she wants . Butter it up and tell her you want cuddle time or something along those lines .

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Approaching it lightly, with humor, might work. Try not to make it serious conversation. Next time she asks you to go shoe shopping or something, ask if she minds if you stay home. She might be insecure and afraid of what you are doing without her. Explain you will be waiting and look forward to seeing her when she gets back, but it would be fun if she did some stuff with her friends too!

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