Should my 9 year old visit her grandfather during his last days of life?
My daughter's grandfather is dying of cancer and has a little over a month to live and it has really been hard on him. He is sleeping most of the time now and is disoriented and can't remember who anyone is. He can't take care of himself and only eats a little food if any. She only sees him once in a while but when she does see him it makes her feel uncomfortable because of how he is now.Her father and I are separated and don't get along very well and have different views about all of this. He thinks she should be around him during his last few days of life but I think she should do what makes her feel comfortable and that is to not be around him to much because it makes her very uncomfortable. I don't know if she should experience something like this or if it would be too traumatic for her.