Do I discuss intimacy or not?
Ive fallen in love with my best friend, I am incredibly attracted to him & think of him all day. Being in my 30s its nice to have butterflies & romance, I think he likes me too. We have not clarified what our relationship is, I dont want to scare him but we're being intimate & I dont know if I'm a friend with benefits, a person he wants to be with or if i'm simply convenient. we have not had sex but it feels like its progressing that way. He said he wasnt one to be really vocal about feelings in a prior conversation so when were close its just breathing. I'm afraid to bring up the topic in case it annoys or scares him, I feel worried but just want to know how he feels.....should I risk sounding clingy or obsessed?