I live in pain every day. It took twenty years before a doctor discovered what I have. It was bittersweet, knowing the doctors had a name & didn't think I was a head case and learning that the pain would never go away.

You are entitled to feel sorry for yourself and for wondering if you should just give up. Just don't get stuck there. There is a small word with huge parameters. It's called Hope.

You need a support system. Get people who can help physically by going to the store or drug store, help with laundry & chores, and drive you wherever you need to go. Have people who will listen when you're down or hurting on speed dial. Find Hope.

If there is no one there for you call a local church, reach out to people in your life like family or acquantices. Find Hope.

Hope is the belief that things will get better without any sort of proof that it will. I've discovered the more positive my belief system, my Faith, the better things get. It takes quite a leap from where you are now but I know you can do it because I was you once. If you have no Faith in God or a a Supreme Being have Faith in humanity. Have Faith that tomorrow you're going to feel just a little bit better than you feel today. Have Faith in the next medical doctor or test that the answer will be there. And if you can't find Hope or Faith today, I'll have it for you. It truly will get better. Have Hope.

blah22: 1 year ago via iPhone

Good answer!

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Use an ice pack then an cold pack.

depends, do you have something worth living for?

Have you contacted a pain management clinic?

Oh honey.... Never give up!!! Never give up! There has to be some help out there somewhere!!! the pins and needles thing sound like a nerve problem. have you seen a neurologist?

dobelSoboel32: 1 year ago

no i haven't. I saw 3 ER doctors, they ignored me. I saw 1 urologist and he just said it's all in my head. Evevn though it started with injury! i told him.

By the way my injury is in the genital area. i now have endless tingling and sometimes pain in urethra. at times the tinglinghas gone down but then it returns. but also i feel like i want to pee but i dont. and stuff like that. it's very difficult.

Thanks for your encouragement. Although i dont know how to not give up. it's too difficult. Yeah i'm gonna ask a neurologist about this

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cellison: 1 year ago via iPhone

Keep looking fir the right doctor. Someone will know what to do! My daughter lives with an undiagnosed illness of some sort and every doc she sees just pretty much gives her the deer in the headlights look. It's frustrating ... But Never give up!
I'll pray for you K? Hugs((( )))

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I know how you feel. I have an incurable, untreatable, very painful cond. You cant give up, though. At times, you wanna give up but you cant. You never know when helps going to come. Hang in there.

overtaker: 1 year ago

Look up homeopathy. It can cure practically anything.

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dobelSoboel32: 1 year ago

thank you you are so nice. You're brave. I wish i was.
i dnot have friends either so i usually dont have anyone to talk to. so, it's difficult to keep my mind off my problem

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overtaker: 1 year ago

Awww. I feel for u.
I'll be your friend!! :) I know what it's like to have no friends. It's not fun. :(

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Look up homeopathy. It will help the pain go away. I take homeopathy, not for pain but for anxiety and it has helped me a lot! My dad took homeopathy when he had really bad back and leg pain and it helped him. Look for a good homeopathic doctor. It's expensive, but it will be worth it. Your homeopathic doctor will find the perfect remedy for u. Once u start taking it, it should start to help within 3 to 6 weeks. I know that seems like a long time, but don't get discouraged. I hope your pain will be cured.
God bless u! :)

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I am 13 and have been dealing with epilepsy sezuies my whole life I'm telling you it's hard but my mom always told me never give up always have faith in God he will take care of you it could be worse but it's not you will be ok hope you get better

overtaker: 1 year ago

I'm not for sure, but I think homeopathy can help with your problem. You and your mom should look into it. Ask a proffesional homeopathic doctor.

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Sonshine: 1 year ago via iPhone

Great answer! I'll keep you in my prayers.

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Dobel. Don't give up. I've seen some of your questions and I'm thinking Fibromyalgia. It's something that a blood test or x-ray won't show but I think you should look into it. And keep looking for a doctor that will help you. Take care, okay?

I had a motor cycle wreak & mangled my left foot up. After 2 surgerys I'm still hop in around. I'm 41 yrs old hurt all of the time so I know what you are going threw. 4yrs I have tried just about everything! Stay away from the pain pills because they will cause you more problems! Be strong & the more you think about the pain the more it hurts!! Let me know how you are doing & if you find out sumthing please let me
Know!!!!!

Please don't ever give up, I know what it's like to not have answers to health questions but you can't let it break you down! There is a doctor out there with answers to your questions so please keep searching and don't give up. Keep your head up, I know it's hard and I'm sorry you are going thru this stuff with nobody listening to your problems, I know it sucks trust me I know but you are worth more than just giving up and you deserve to be happy and pain free! I wish you the best of luck because nobody in this day in age should have to deal with being uncomfortable so please keep searching because you will find answers!

Sonshine: 1 year ago via iPhone

Good answer, too!

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blah22: 1 year ago via iPhone

Thanks!

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