HELP! I have a problem w/ a friend. Please read details! I'm sorry it's lengthy, but very serious that I find a resolution; Idk what to do!
My buddy honestly has a good heart. I've known him less than 2yrs. Based on what he's said, the majority of his life has been spent under appreciated. You'd think he'd better understand how badly it hurts when treated unfairly,right? With that said, here's my issue; Any time I say/do something wrong, he goes on NON-STOP about each & every thing I've EVER said/done wrong! Example: 1.5yrs ago, I was upset over how low my bank acct balance was & I was spastically trying to add my receipts. He said something & I snapped at him & told him not to talk to me. I had already [VERY NICELY] asked him about 10min prior to PLEASE not say anything until I got the receipts added.Moments later, I felt bad & I apologized. I've lost track of how many times I said I was sorry--Not just that day but also days later. ANYWAYS, just last week he said something I felt was entirely out of line & I called him on it. His response was "Well you snapped at me that day that you were upset over your bank account!" WHAT!?!? I said to him "You've got to be kidding me? 1st, that was over 1yr ago 2nd, I've lost track of how many damn times I have apologized for that! For Christ's sake, I admitted I was in the wrong & I repeatedly apologized for it. How many times are you going to throw that in my face? Long story short, this triggered him to start texting me & reminding me about every single little thing I have EVER done that upset him, including ridiculously insignificant things like "that time you told me you'd call me back and never did," I turned my phone off to sleep. I woke the next morning & I had 17txts waiting--every single one reminding me of something I did/said wrong--Thing that are well in the past & have already been apologized for. I was speechless. What do I do/say? He's 31yrs old & I'm appalled by his ridiculously childish behavior.