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Men a women were created for eachother. Our bodies are designed in a way that we are able to produce offspring, which requires a male and female. There is a reason two men and two women can't make babies, they aren't designed to. Marriage is the joining together of one man and one women. That's what I believe. And I know I'm going to probably get loads of comments or comments saying I am a homophobe. I have no problem with people that are gay, I realize it's not a personal choice and I have never had a problem or enmity towards them, but marriage is between a man and a woman.

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People like you make me sad to live in this world. Why is it your job to tell people they can't get married? Everyone should have the right to marry the person they love.
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And here we come.....
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I agree shaylen
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How about if I told you that you couldn't marry the person you love? How would you feel? It's discrimination and it's wrong.
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What they really are after is a society that recognizes every sexual arrangement as normal. To give sanction to gay marriage/same-sex marriage would be to give approval to the homosexual lifestyle, which the Bible clearly and consistently condemns as sinful. Christians should stand firmly against the idea of gay marriage/same-sex marriage.
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@ashley-in the beginning, God create man and woman. The woman was not without the man neither the woman without the man. He commanded men and women to be fruitful, and to have families. Marriage is sacred, and family is the most important and sacred social bonds we have on this earth. Family consists of a mother, father, and their children. I will stand for my beliefs and continue to stand for them. Like I said, marriage is sacred, something that has been corrupted now and really is only considered a piece of paper to most, and not something to be taken seriously, in the world's eyes. I have heard all that the argument towards gay marriage is, nothing you say is new, so you might as well save it. I didn't go to your answer. Its not discrimination to me, only the way God meant it to be. If you have a problem with it, maybe your problem should be towards God, not me.
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*neither the man without the woman. Oops
*created
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And that is why u Christians ur religion is unappealing to outsiders most of u not all I have few good friends that practice yalls religion but I'm Wiccan from birth
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And most of u are very closed minded
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Usually the only time people use the word "close minded" is when the other person doesn't agree with the others view, which doesn't make sense. For example, I personally, think it is wrong to spank a child. However, I have been open minded to others who view it differently and have listened with validation and saw their points. Didn't mean I agreed with them, but I saw their point. We are all close minded at times. And I admit I can at times be very close minded, but I don't consider myself to be a close-minded individual. However I think there are some things that we shouldn't open our mind to either. Respect my beliefs and I will respect yours.
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I always thought that it took a VERY open minded person to live their whole life on faith. We have devoted ourselves to someone we've never met or seen. Talk about open minded!!!
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I can say the same for myself
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Why do I call yourself "snake", snake? Just curious.
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@lala-true, thanks:)
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@shaylen: Let me begin by saying while I don't agree with your stand on same-sex marriage, I respect your view that sexual orientation if not a personal choice.

And now the rebuttal...

That men and women are designed for procreation is an argument for procreation--not an argument against same-sex marriage. People get civil marriages for all kinds of reasons. And remember, we are ONLY talking about civil marriage--not the marriage sacrament. Besides love, people also marry for companionship, tax shelters, to please or spite their parents, because of an obsessive need to ?fix? a truly objectionable person, because of an unexpected pregnancy, or because they have mistaken intimacy for love, just to name a few. Some of these reasons are questionable and some have nothing, or can have nothing, to do with procreation. But despite the diversity or propriety of those reasons, they are all constitutionally protected reasons to marry under the laws of this country. Why not add gays to that list?
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Because marriage is between a man and a woman. Sorry I can't get more into depth, but that's basically the gist of it. Marriage is defined as between man and woman, is what I stand firmly to believe.
Though I don't agree with your beliefs, I appreciate your hospitality (no name calling, or getting intense like I've seen with others) but that's all I can really say.
Genesis- 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Also google "the proclamation to the world" those are the things I have come to believe.
Anyway just saying why and what I believe, I know you won't agree, that's ok, but I am not moved from this, marriage is between a man and a woman, and I don't think that should be redefined.
-with all do respects to all:done answering and looking at these comments. My answer says enough, and I am not changing my mind, so really no need to ask me why I think what or try to change my mind.

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@shaylen: I do not want you to change your belief. I do not want religions to change their definition of marriage or who they judge to be worthy of that sacrament. I just want you to not force others to give up a right because you believe a certain way. That is what is happening now. Gays would be able to access their right to marry in certain states were it not for a majority of people forcing that minority to bend to their beliefs. Let us hope that such incursions by Christian dogma into our law making process does not set a precedent for the incursion of Sharia law. Our legal system is, after all, based primarily on precedence. Is that really a risk you are willing to take to keep two loving and committed people, like the relationship you and I have with our spouses, from sharing the same legal recognition and protections that, again, you and I have with our spouses?
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I'm all for gay marriage. Straight people get to marry. Gay's should have the same rights. Just because they love someone of the same sex doesn't mean that they shouldn't be able to get married. I refuse to get married until everyone has that same right, and my fiance agrees with me.

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He is not your "fianc " if you're not planning to get married.
Duh.
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Thumbs for you Ashley :)
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Don't comment if you have nothing nice to say. And I have a ring on my finger. He is my fiance. We will get married when everyone else can. DUH!
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Thank you Delouise.
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I read it the same way at first, but she MAY mean 'my fianc agrees with my views'.
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That's exactly what I meant. He proposed. I said yes. And now we are waiting until everyone can get married.
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@Ashley, some people just can't wait to try & trip you up. You know what you & your fiance are doing & that's all that matters :)
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Thank you Delouise.
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Welcome.
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@Ashley: I know we tangled on another subject, but I can't tell you how pleased I was to read your answer. Very well said.
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Thank you very much.
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gay marriage is terrible it is not natural!!!!!
smitty i'm sure would agree!
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@Lovely: Eye glasses are not natural. Homosexuality is. It has been observed as pervasive throughout nature. Here's a National Geographic article you might find interesting: http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2004/07/0722_040722_gayanimal_2.html

In light of these facts it has been said, "Homosexual behavior has been observed in many different species, but homophobia has been observed in only one."
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I would like nothing more than gay people to be able to marry.. They should have the same rights as everyone else. It's really unfair. How does it hurt straight people if gays are allowed to marry anyway? It's not taking anything away from anyone. I'm not gay but it really bothers me that they are classed as a minority & are made to have different rules, like they're not good enough or something. I know some people really disagree with my thoughts in this but each to their own I say :)

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I love your answer. Thumbs up.
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Thankyou :)
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Ur reply was great thanks
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@Snake.. You are welcome :)
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@aussie: Please explain the connection between the civil right of marriage and toilet use.
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@AussieR.. Don't even start. Completely unnecessary. Agree to disagree & don't cause drama just because you don't share my views.
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Delouise...in case you didn't see, I left you a message under Ash To Dust. :)
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Marriage isn't a right though. It's a covenant.
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@Camel: The religious sacrament of marriage is a covenant, and that is not at issue. Civil marriage IS a right, and is the one that is at issue regarding same-sex marriage. See my response to your answer below.
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Are you asking for opinions on gay marriage, or seeking to find out the prospects for the future success of gay marriage?

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Bad.it's just wrong what are they teaching the kids?to get married with the same gender? No that's....that's just wrong

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Why is it wrong to love someone? People should be able to love whoever they want.
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What are they teaching the kids?
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Ash: love is love and they're ain't no changing it
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There was a kid on tv (on the Ellen show) seven years old, saying "I think Obama should win because he says boys should marry boys and girls should marry girls and that's right". That disgusted me. Little kids don't think like that! You know he was taught that. What are people doing to their little ones these days?? We are destroying our generation.
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I agree emo and shaylen what is so wrong with falling in love with someone. No one gets to tell you who to fall in love with and marry so why do we have the right to tell anyone else.
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The younger generation is more open minded and that is an awesome thing. People should take lessons from them and become more open minded. It would make the world a better place.
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You misunderstood. I meant by love is love as in it doesn't matter if ur bi gay or straight. Love is a beautiful thing and it doesn't matter whom its referred to
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U misunderstood me. I meant love is a beautiful thing. It doesn't matter whom you are referring to. It doesn't matter I'd u r bi gay or straight. I love that gays can marry. I'm not against it in the least but
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Men were created for women and women were created for men not men fir men ir women for women
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And if gay marriage is ok then what if your dad was gay then you would have never been born what if all guys were gay? Then humans would have ben extinct thats just how it is
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What did I misunderstand?
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@emo I knew exactly what you meant.
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Sorry emo there should have been a comma after your name. What I said to shaylen had nothing to do with you.
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Ashley:open minded? Kid was seven years old. Being opening minded means you are open to different perspectives and to hear different views even if you believe differently. It doesn't mean you have a set of certain beliefs. People now seem to view "open minded" as believing the main stream beliefs or believing the same as someone else. You can believe differently and still be open minded. And again, the boy was SEVEN YEARS old. Why in the world would you teach an innocent child about different sexual orientations?
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That's just sickening.
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It's fine. And sorry that on like three times. It wouldn't show so I kept reposting lol
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My 2 cents.. People don't choose wether they're gay or straight. You are born either gay or straight. Goodness me!!
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Delouise.. So much to understand about the human body. I read recently that there is something to do with the pineal gland And sexual orientation. Believe it or not but those words came from an angel of God who came to a hellfire and brimstone baptist preacher who was on his deathbed. He had been radically against gays and taught against them his whole life. Then an angel came and changed his views and shared the " love of God" he had been missing during his entire preaching career.
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@shaylen: I don't have a transcript of the show to check the accuracy of your claim that the child said "..boys should marry boys and girls should marry girls and that's right". If true, the child should have been corrected. A corrected version of that statement would be "boys should BE ALLOWED TO marry boys and girls should BE ALLOWED TO marry girls, and that's ALright."
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@Ash_To_Dust: You said, "And if gay marriage is ok then what if your dad was gay then you would have never been born what if all guys were gay? Then humans would have ben extinct" Yet, homosexuals have been around since the beginning of time and our species continues to thrive. As to "what if all guys were gay", that makes as much since as asking, "What if all men were born without sex organs?" The fact is that all men were NOT born homosexual. Multiple studies have shown that in countries that allow same-sex marriage, there is no correlation between that and the birth rate or heterosexual marriage rate in those countries. In short, the world will not fly off its axis if gays are allowed to marry.
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@cal-my mistake, that is what he said basically. I think a little child is a bit young to know about different types of sexual orientations.
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Still, it is up to the parents to teach their children what they want them to learn in an age-appropriate manner--whether that means teaching the child that same-sex marriage is not something their family believes in although some others do, or simply we think that is wrong but some people think it's right. That's just what parents do. But at the very least, if that child was under the impression that the president was saying boys SHOULD marry boys, it is the job of some responsible adult to correct that view, because that is absolutely wrong.
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CalTex-Let me ask you something are you gay?Is that why your defending them?
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@Ash: I am not gay. In about a week my wife and I will be celebrating our 38th Wedding anniversary. We have three grown sons, none are gay--at least they all have girlfriends (one is engaged) I have never had a close friend or relative who was gay, although I have known people who are through work and and other associations.

Why am I defending them? My willingness to put my support behind the gay rights movement over the last nine years is based on much research and hard data. But I'm not defending "them" so much as I'm defending what I see to be a civil rights issue--just as many whites did in the 1960s when they marched and protested along side blacks. As Martin Luther King, Jr. said, "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere". So it is for the protection of my own civil rights as well.

I believe in supporting the freedom of religion on which this country was founded. Bans on interracial and same-sex marriages were and are an incursion of religious dogma into our secular government--Christian dogma that is just as insidious as Sharia Law. I was on the wrong side of history at the beginning of the civil rights era, and I will not let that be the case this time.

But let's turn your question around. Are you defending bans of same-sex marriage because you are a heterosexual?
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No i'm not i'm think it's wrong cause men were made for women and women for men and what makes you think I love anyone
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@Ash: Why do you believe only men and women should marry each other? And I'm not sure to what your question about you loving anyone refers, so I don't have an answer for that.
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Because they were made for each other!!!And I meant to say what makes you think I have the feeling of love
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@Ash: That it takes a man's sperm and a woman's egg to produce offspring is without question. That men and women do that is a good argument for making more babies in the world, but it is meaningless it terms of arguing with whom one can and can't share one's life.

You may not like the idea of two men or two women spending their lives together, but it is happening right now around the world, and it is causing no problem. Some of these same-sex couples have children who, according to the research studies that have been done, are thriving--often better than their opposite-sex family counterparts. Studies have found no higher incidence of homosexuality in children of same-sex parents than in the population as a whole. Same-sex marriage is a non-issue. There is no downside. It doesn't affect anyone's decision regarding who we marry or, for those who are believers, what we believe is God's will.

If it is causing a problem, please, let's see the valid data. I've been doing this for nine years now and that data isn't out there. And I have no personal stake in this. I'm not gay nor are any of my friends or loved ones. If there was proof that it was harmful I have no problem with backing out of this. I used to feel as strongly as you did that same-sex marriage is wrong. But after a lot of studying and getting first-hand info from homosexuals, I had no choice but to change my mind on this issue. Until it is proven otherwise, I will fight just as hard for gay rights as I use to fight against them.
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@Ash: Still don't understand the question about why I think you feel love. But I guess I would assume that you do--for your family, God, something or someone. If not, that is sad, but still not sure where that fits into the discussion.
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I love that they can finally be married. No one should stop them from love. Equal rights seem to be forgotten when it comes to the subject. Outline;love is beautiful no matter who it's to

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I absolutely agree with you. Thumbs up.
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The same as inter-racial marriages. Eventually the stigma will be lost and it will be legal.

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I hope so.
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I consider myself a Christian. But I didn't realize until recently the stigma that was surrounded inter racial marriages. I am in an inter racial marriage. So I feel as same sex marriages go, it will probably follow the same path as homosexuality becomes more accepted. Is it sin to be in a homosexual marriage. My answer is that it is not by my grace one is saved. So I don't have to know the answer to that question right now, and I don't. I know what mainstream Christianity says, but as for homosexuality I don't. If I do believe it a sin, still it is not by my grace one is saved but the Lord's. We should try not to sin, but we do. So why should mine be forgiven over someone else's. Only them and God know there relationship, who am I to try and intercede. Thanks for listening. God bless
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Don't mention it blessed be
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So true. Many, many, many heterosexual people live sexually sinful lives. Even those who call themselves a Christian. Most have sex outside of marriage, live with their boyfriend/ girlfriend, etc. yet they can judge the homosexual.
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Gay marriage is incompatible with Christianity (and for that matter, Islam & Judaism). If someone asks you why you oppose gay marriage, the only thing you really have to say to explain it is, 'I'm a Christian.'God doesn't condemn anyone for who he is; so if you're attracted to the same sex, that absolutely, unconditionally doesn't make you bad, evil or "un-Christian." On the other hand, let me note that I do consider hating, tormenting, or bullying people because of their sexual orientation to be distinctively "un-Christian" behavior. As Billy Graham has said, 'God will not judge a Christian guilty for his or her involuntary feelings." However, God has drawn a clear line in the sand when it comes to homosexual acts. If you're gay, you're not allowed to act on it. If that seems harsh or unfair to you, well, sorry, but you'll have to take it up with God. It's His rule.

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Green:) it's like basically if you don't support gay marriage, you're automatically labeled "homophobe". It's not that we have a problem with people that are gay, it's just that we don't agree that marriage is anything other than man and women! We are considered intolerant, prejudice, and unfair. Who is really intolerant? My friend had "yes on prop 8" as a bumper sticker on his car. Came back after school and in sharpie ink "homophobe" was written. Everyone has a right to their beliefs and to stand up for them. I will continue to stand by mine!
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Actually more than that. Cuss words too. Sad to see.
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People can call themselves what ever they want, they just can't act on the sinful side of it.
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Well I'm Christian but thanks for the reply
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Well I'm not Christian sorry type o
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Lol... U had me surprised for a minute, snake.
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@straw: You wrote, "Gay marriage is incompatible with Christianity (and for that matter, Islam & Judaism)." That is absolutely true. Opposition to same-sex marriage is based on religious dogma. But gay marriage is NOT incompatible with secular government. Forcing the religious dogma of one-man-one-woman marriage is equivalent to making belief in the God of Abraham as a prerequisite to vote. That's not a problem if you are a Jew, Christian, or Muslim, but it IS a problem if you are, for example, a deist, Hindu, Shinto, or agnostic/atheist.
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^ I like ur comments they add a lot to the discussion
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Thanks, snake--to a Texas pagan from a former Texan and former pagan.
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Everyone is free to marry right now. No one is stopping anyone. You just have to follow the rules and then everything would be fine. A homosexual woman can get married just like I did. To a man.

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That just doesn't make sense.
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You say ur lesbian but u marry a man hypocrite
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She's not a lesbian.
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No I'm not a lesbian. What I meant was a lesbian can get married it just has to be to a man. A marriage is a man and a woman, so to get married they just have to marry a man. Get it? My point was everyone can get married right now.... It just has to be under the same laws that my husband an I got married under to make it legal.
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No, I'm not a lesbian, I said that lesbians can get married, they just have to marry a man. Get it? The law says a marriage is a man and woman so they can get married the just have to follow the laws like my husband and I did. The point is they can get married no one is stopping them.
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No, I'm not a homosexual. I said that they can get married they just have to follow the law and one man and one woman can get married just like my husband and me It was ironic. Get it? No one is stopping them from getting married they just don't like the law.
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You had me scratching my head there for a minute. lala
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Ok, .....so now I know it's hard to make a joke on here. I won't try it again. Hehe. :-)
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@lala: I can't believe your answer. I was a young man in 1967 when Mildred Jeter (a black woman) and Richard Loving (a white man) brought suit in the Supreme Court which ultimately struck down all bans of interracial marriage. Virtually all the objections to interracial marriage have been used to object to same-sex marriage, but one of the silliest things said in support of those bans was that those bans did not prevent Mildred Jeter from getting married. All she needed to do was find a black man to marry her.
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pretty soon beastiality will be legal!! FFS
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@Lovely: The same thing was said by those supporting bans of interracial marriage. In fact, virtually every argument put forth in favor of banning same-sex marriage was used to argue in favor of banning interracial marriage. I know. I was part of the problem at that time, but since realized how foolish and wrong I was. Here's a comparison for you if you are interested: http://vfm.typepad.com/vermont_freedom_to_marry/files/Arguments_Against_Interracial_Marriage_and_Equal_Marriage.pdf

Plus, no one is asking to change marriage laws that protect us from victimization and physiological harm. That is why kinship restrictions, age of consent, and mental capacity/informed consent are modifiers that will stay in place. (Bestiality would be ruled out by the informed consent modifier.) Furthermore, same-sex marriage has produced no evidence of either victimization or physiological harm.
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Actually, I should have mentioned that bestiality would also be ruled out on the basis of physiological harm. The modifiers would be better stated as: (1) empirical scientific evidence showing that a union does not pose a significant threat of harm to society from a health or other physiological standpoint, (2) no participant in the marriage contract is being victimized, and (3) each participant in the contract is able to understand the particulars of the contract to which he or she is agreeing.
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The out look is this no one is ever going to agree.

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Marriage and the family are the bedrock institutions of our society. The strength of a culture can be measured in accordance with the strength of its families. While homosexuals may desire to "marry" as a way to gain social acceptance and legal recognition, allowing them to do would hurt our society and its future. Think about it: If suddenly there are two real alternatives to choose from, and both appear equally acceptable in the eyes of the government, then the common institution of the family as we know God created it - growing from the love of one man and one women - would soon become one of the many options. This would wreak havoc on society because God's way is the best way. Going against His plans hurts not only those homosexuals attempting to marry, but the entire culture in which they live. This is not only a political issue, it is religious as well. God is above politics. (My answer continues in the comments)

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God has written into our sexuality a two-fold purpose: it is 2) unitive and 2) procreative. By "unitive," the Church means that sex should be a "person-uniting" action. By "procreative," the Church teaches that God desires for sex between couples to be "person-creating" (or open to doing so). Sexual acts that respect this two-fold purpose are moral and good; those that do not are immoral and evil. Homosexual acts, regardless of the intention of those who engage in them, cannot be truly unitive or procreative, so they cannot be moral and good in themselves. That they cannot be procreative is obvious; that they cannot be unitive becomes clear when we reflect on the matter a bit. Homosexual acts cannot "unite" people in the true meaning of the word. No matter what homosexual persons may CLAIM they mean by their actions, they cannot fully give themselves to each other in their acts as married people do. This is simply because the very acts they engage in are contrary to the natural law, which is God's eternal law manifested in His creation. For one thong, they cannot give a very important part of themselves to each other - their power to bring into existence with one's spouse a new life made in God's image.
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Marriage is only possible between two spouses of opposite sexes. Based on the physical design of man and woman, it is obvious that men and women were made to be together. Strictly speaking then, "same-sex marriage" is an IMPOSSIBILITY; the very words themselves have no meaning. Though some Western countries - including Canada - have legalized so called "same-sex unions" and several U.S. states are considering such legislation, we must work to make sure that such unions do not become widespread. Marriage as a legal and social institution is intended to protect the family, especially to provide children with a stable, truly human environment in which to be conceived, nurtured, and educated. Homosexual couples are incapable of procreating naturally, and they don't provide a suitable environment for raising children because they lack the complementary nature of male and female love. Two moms do not equal a mom and dad, nor do two dads.

Hope this helps! - ManOfKnowledge
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Three words: Freedom of religion. You're ideas aren't the only ideas.
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Many people are against same-sex marriage because they wrongly believe people are trying to change their religious beliefs or make churches redefine marriage. We have two types of marriage in this country: Religious and civil. Religious marriages are NOT recognized by law and the definition of marriage for each of the various religions cannot be altered by our secular government. Only civil marriage is legally recognized, and that is the marriage law that needs to be changed. This would have no effect on religious dogma. If more people understood this, support for legalizing same-sex marriage would be far more than the current 47%-53% of Americans that polling indicates (opposition has dropped to around 36%).

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Religious marriage is recognized too. My parents have a marriage license.
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@shaylen: This is the confusion I would like to clear up. As stated above, we have two different types of marriage in this country. Religious marriage is the marriage sacrament. Civil marriage is like a Justice of the Peace marriage or being married by a ship's captain. Civil marriages are performed by an agent who has been authorized by the state to sign and approve a civil marriage certificate. Virtually every church marriage in this country--your parents and my marriage--all consisted of two marriages. One was the sacrament which has no force of law in government, but does meet all the requirements of the religious institution. Then immediately after the sacrament, there is the meeting of the cleric with the bride and groom and witnesses where the cleric--acting in his or her capacity as an approved agent of the state--signs the Certificate of Civil Marriage. That is the marriage license your parents have. Were it not for that signed marriage license, their marriage would not have been recorded by the state, and therefore, would not be legally recognized by the government. They might be married in the eyes of the church, but not in the eyes of the government.

This is why legalizing same-sex marriage will have no impact on religious marriage. Religious institutions will not be required to perform same-sex marriages nor will they be forced to admit same-sex couples into their congregations if they don't want to. That is how our doctrine of separation of church and state works.
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Ah. Ok. No I did have an idea of that, just not all the details that you put. But yea I know.
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I think marriage should change to fit todays society. Marriage is a sacred bond between two people who truly love each other.Marriage is marriage no matter what.It doesn't matter if a guy is marry to a guy or a woman is marry to a woman or a guy is marry to a woman.Love is love.Love has no boundaries.Love has no gender.There is nothing wrong with gay marriage.And if you still think marriage is for a man and a woman you are wrong,you are stuck in the past,you are living the dark age.This is the new age.so get use to it.Religion shouldn't tell us who to marry.If god was real he wouldn't care about what people do in there bed room.plus jesus didn't say anything about homosexuality.It's not in the ten commandments.Marriage is a civil right or a human right and this America and america is all about justice,equality,fairness.so when you think about gays not being able to marry is un-American.Did you know that in the 1950-1960 it was a sin for a black person to marry a white person or any other person who had a different skin color.Not giving civil rights to homosexuals is un-american.Not giving equal rights to homosexuals is un-american.Homophobia is todays racism think about it.

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Marriage is about love not gender.
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SCIENCE.Homosexuality occurs in all species animals and humans since they appeared.Did you know that gay men's brains are similar to straight women's brains,and lesbian brains are similar to straight men's brains.Homosexualiy occurs in all species and humans since they appeared.Scientistis see it is a defense mechanism for overpopulation.It is NATURAL.the only reason people don't agree is RELIGION.
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SCIENCE.Homosexuality occurs in all species animals and humans since they appeared.Did you know that gay men's brains are similar to straight women's brains,and lesbian brains are similar to straight men's brains.Homosexualiy occurs in all species and humans since they appeared.Scientistis see it is a defense mechanism for overpopulation.It is NATURAL.the only reason people don't agee is RELIGION.
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I think maybe it's to keep everyone for overpopulating the world.To keep animals for overpopulation the world.To keep humans for overpopulating the world which is too later for that.So homosexuality is a good thing in nature.
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SCIENCE.Homosexuality occurs in all species animals and humans since they appeared.Did you know that gay men's brains are similar to straight women's brains,and lesbian brains are similar to straight men's brains.Homosexualiy occurs in all species and humans since they appeared.Scientistis see it is a defense mechanism for overpopulation.It is NATURAL.the only reason people don't agree is RELIGION.I think maybe it's to keep everyone for overpopulating the world.To keep animals for overpopulation the world.To keep humans for overpopulating the world which is too later for that.So homosexuality is a good thing in nature.Rainbow power.
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Excellent post, gothic. It's good to see people approach this subject from a rational standpoint. And as to the religious view, it is important to remember no one is trying to change that. The issue of same-sex marriage only affects civil law--not religious dogma.
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Love is love no matter what.
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Gay marriage is wrong. Why should we change something that God gave to us? And marriage is not a right. It's a covenant given to us by God.

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By witch god are referring there are tons of gods
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@Camel: You are correct. The government should not, and cannot, require religions to redefine their concept of marriage if they do not want to, nor should they be required to officiate same-sex marriages or even allow same-sex couples into their congregations. Because of our doctrine of separation of church and state, the sacrament of marriage cannot be infringed upon by the state (although it is not recognized by the state), and civil marriage cannot be infringed upon by religion (although it is the only type of marriage recognized by the state.) If the cleric officiating at a church wedding did not also sign the civil marriage certificate in the presence of the bride and groom, that marriage would not have taken place as far as the state is concerned. So be thankful for the separation of church and state because it protects your right to worship as you wish. In fact, if your church does not want blacks in its membership, the government cannot prevent you from banning them.
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It's fine. The people who oppose it are slowly being outnumbered. Soon, people will realize banning gay marriage is like forcing certain morals on people. So long as religious institutions aren't forced to marry gays, it should be legal.

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