You can go back but you will never be able to ever trust this person again. It sucks but every time he isn't where he says he is or even if he is where he says he is... you will never trust him that he is... Your word is everything so when you are untrue to yourself... you are untrue to everyone around you, too.
Don't take him back!!! Once he's shown that he can't be loyal to you, you need to be good to yourself and walk away from him. You will have nothing but trouble with someone who can't be loyal and honest to you. He will promise to change forever and a day, but he won't..... Save yourself from years of heartbreak and loneliness.
If you want to try and work it out and you feel he's worth it then make him, don't give him, earn your trust. It's a decision only you can make. Just remember he did it once he could do it again. My best friend husband cheated on her once. Just like your boyfriend he was more then sorry. She didn't leave him but let me tell you he earned her trust. Wasn't easy for either one. They've been married over 40 yrs now and doing great. So it depends how hard are you both willing to work on making your relationship work. Good luck.
Keep him at arm's length. Let him prove it without getting too close to him. Don't bring it up again (what he did) and don't try to punish him either. If you really like him, you can wait and watch to see what he is up to. He might have done something stupid that he is sorry about. Just make sure that he is truly sorry and not sorry that he got caught.
It's different for anyone some go back out with the cheater and never cheats again and or they do cheat again honestly go with what you feel do you want your heart on the line with someone you know might cheat you'll never know if you try by only knowing the risk or go with someone who has never cheated but everyone has mistakes just depends on you
Well that all depends ... I know there are a lot of people who believe the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" .. But, that a comment is not actually factual .. It's JUST a saying.
The truth is .. there are people who have made a horrible mistake by cheating and are truly regretful and remorseful .. and can continue to live their lives without EVER cheating again. THEN .. there are people who are not trustworthy .. Period.
The two are not the same.
Finding the balance between being able to trust again and being trustworthy is a slippery slope .. It's not easy .. But it can be accomplished. Ya old get one change to make it right.
This is a tough one...and a very common question. Almost all of us have been in this situation before and it's so hard to know what is the right thing to do. If you take him back he will almost for sure do it again...but if you love him you don't want to lose him just in case he really means it. Read this article....It explains a lot and tells you what you should do if your man cheats on you and you want to keep him. http://voices.yahoo.com/some-thoughts-men-cheat-7615762.html
shame on him if he fooled you once, but shame on you if he fools you twice. give yourselves some time apart and watch his behaviour. i honestly wouldnt take him back, but if you want to, definitely wait a very long time so he can mature.
This is your choice. You as a woman have the right to make your own choices. Personally I would not go back to this man because he sounds like a real pain in the ass, but maybe he's really hot or something. Do whatever you feel is right for you, but please take a word of advice. Once a cheater always a cheater. Peace Love Glitter -Hakes<3
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truth is would you ever be able to trust him again. he probably does love you but when you 2 are going out, will a little piece of you still wonder if he is talking or flirting, or even cheating on you with another girl? if you can live with that worry of this, and hope that this time maybe it will be different then go for it, but if you are even for a second unsure about this then you need to think harder.
I do believe in once a cheater always a cheater. I've been cheated on and forgave and he ended up cheating on me after we got married. So, make a wise choice and think with your brain and not with your heart.
everybody mess up sometimes.. have to know why he cheeted, was he drunk, who he cheeted with ect. if you do give him a socnt chance he has to earn your trust. you can cheek cell phones cheek up on him out of the blue to see if hes where he says hes at.. but do you want to do all that?
I'm going through same thing, he cheated me with this girl that is way opposite of him. He is troublemaker, loves car, not very friendly. She's very nice, pharmacy technician, and whatever. I've know her for little awhile. but anyways. I went on a date other night and now he want me back. part of me thinking he want me back because he cant stand me with other dude. part of me still have feeling for him and i really do want to be with him. but itll give me hard time trusting him. But it's up to you. *Try to figure out why he cheated on you in first place* If he cheated on you because he want to then i wouldn't. if he cheated on you because of thing you do but you can change it. maybe change it and make relationship healthier.
The only way you will ever know for sure if your boyfriend is cheating on you is if you catch him in the act or if he tells you straight up. I would really think about if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in and if not, get out of it. Nobody deserves to be treated like that,one of my best friend give this website http://bit.ly/spy-cell or http://1cellphonespyware.weebly.com/
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