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Are they going to get a divorece? (read below and plzzz answer)

My mom and dad fight so much. And people say "oh it's what all couples do" but they fight in front of there 4 kids till my moms crying. Yesterday they were fighting pretty hard and i'm tired of it. This morning, like 10 minutes ago (i was in my room and my door was open) my parents were in their room just across the hall. my mom's friend sighned her up for a job and now she ends up doing all the work. anyway, they were fighting over her job and my dad said "you'll have to pick the job or your friend" and the my mom said "well, maybe i have to pick between my husband and my life." please help!

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Whether they will divorce or not is entirely their decision, but it's very sad they are fighting in front of you. However, maybe it's better they are happy separately than miserable together.

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true... thanks so much.
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Call a meeting with both parents And let them know that it is inappropriate that they are fighting in front of you guys. Also pray for your parents that they might be unified. Hang in there!

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I agree that she needs to pray for them!
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ha, if my grandma can't make thm stop, i doubt very much that i can.
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Could dad be controlling and trying to fix moms every problem? That's what I just read into your words. Perhaps mom wants him to listen and he wants to fix it and tell her what to do. That is a typical male thing to do. It could be how they relate to each other and dad doesn't understand that mom needs someone to talk her problems to so she can figure them out, and not to have dad parent her in telling her what to do? Ask your mom some day when it's just you. I had a husband like that it drove me crazy. I couldn't tell him stuff he had to tell me how to fix it like I couldn't fix it on my own. Maybe mom needs a girlfriend to talk to instead Or Could ask dad to just listen without trying to fix.

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no, my mom is citizizing everything my dad does and he's defending himself.
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Aha! The other side! It takes two to argue and one to stop it. Critical words always hurt! They both could use a bit of advice. They are both disappointed with each other and it is ruining the relationship. They are both trying to be right. And neither is trying to be happy. It's so hard for their children. Whatever happens its between them scary as it is. You can definitely tell them how their behavior is affecting you.
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I'm sorry you have to go through all that and listen to/see them argue! :( I know it's hard...from the time I was old enough to understand what was going on until I was about 12 or so, my parents were constantly fighting and sometimes even in front of us 4 kids. It was miserable. When I was about 7 or 8, there was talk of divorce, and lawyers/paper work were even brought out and all, but thank the Lord, it never went through! My parents have both mellowed out as they've gotten older, and almost never fight at all now. :) They were able to reach an understanding. :) Keep your chin up! This too shall pass! Praying for you and your family! And like one user suggested, try talking with your parents about it all.

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ok, thanks.
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I think they should divorce, but its there decision, but what im seeing over ur parents fighting is that ur dad is taking over control on ur mom.

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he's not, he's defending himself.....
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I'm sorry to hear this Emma... They are going thru problems... Just stay strong i'm here.. talk to me whenever...

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thank u, Arun
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Sweety.. i'm here for you :-)
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really i go with all of the answers but the content you have used about your family is none of the webs buisness you shouldnt put things like that on the web someone doing spam could find out all your secrets not trying to make you scared tho

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i wuz lookin 4 advice 4 wut 2 do! u really think id throw somthin up like this if it wasn't serious??
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sorry i defended you its your buisness whether or not you put this on the web . i hope your parents fix the problem IF your mom is fush sing at your dad for simple mistakes thats her im sorry you have to go through this . again im sorry plz comment me back.sorry
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it's ok. hahaha srry 4 being snappy, i was having a bad day.
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