mustard oil works good, it dilutes the ear wax. but you may have to go to the ear doctor and have him flush your ear out. sometimes if you have wax and water together it thickens and needs to be flushed out. be careful your ears have to last a long time.
Put a handful of water and then shake it down by tilting and tapping the side of your head gently so the water will come out. Try several times and if it doesn't work, just sleep it off and sleep on the side so hopefully the clog will clear.