Where can i find a video or pictures showing the DAY by DAY growth of a fetus NOT month by month
Fetal development is not documented day by day but you can find week by week or month by month trackers. Visit http://www.slideshare.net/catherinepatterson/human-fetal-development-conception-to-birth-baby-presentation or http://www.webmd.com/baby/ss/slideshow-fetal-development to track your baby's development.
The best I have found so far is a weekly visual guide. I know it isn't quite what you were after http://www.visembryo.com/baby/9.html