If she cheated on someone so long ago, she most likely did learn a lesson. My dad cheated on about 10 girls when he was young. but 3 years later, my mother gave him another chance and look it today. I am a teenager and two happy parents. So she may or may not be able to be trusted. Look for clues, but try not to miss understand something. I know what its like. I would give her another chance. But still be aware1
In my view, this all depends on the relationship you have. People make mistakes and I believe everyone needs a fresh start. All you need to do is be careful and not rush things until you are certain that she has changed. Pay attention and be keen to notice the little things, which will give a cheating person away.
has she cheated since. truly if it was 8years ago you should let that go. does she communicate good with you is she faithful and good to you? if thats a yes. then you have nothing to be worried about. just make sure the communication always is strong in your relationship
If the moral fiber is such that they will allow themselves to cheat then yes. She said she was commited to him when they married. Apparently she didn't mean it. Sure, its easy to cheat. It's just. wrong. big time.
in my opinion i wouldnt date a woman with that history and i believe if theyve done it once they can do it again,because thats the type of person she is and her personality, her actions speak for what she is!! im not saying stop but be wary. good luck!!
there are many different reasons why people cheat.I'm not saying it is right but if you are both serious about this relationship you should ask her why she felt the need to do this. She should be willing to talk about this with you and if she is not then I would say you might have a problem.
Not exactly, if it was once 8 years ago then it's not exactly an issue, but be aware it has happened, keep an honest and open line of communication, can't hold someone hostage their whole life for a mistake they made once......and almost a decade ago.
If she cheated once eight years ago and hasn't cheated since maybe she learned her lesson. Give her a chance but keep your guard up at least for awhile. If the signs aren't there that she's cheating she learned her lesson. Hope she did.
You should be very worried. Really think about the integrity of a person that has cheated. It doesn't matter how long ago it was because its still the fact that she had it in her to even do that. You know the saying once a cheater always a cheater. You will always be wondering if you can trust her.
Just because someone has cheated once doesn't mean that they'll cheat again. If it was eight years ago and with someone she divorced, then I'd say to let it go unless she does something to make you feel concerned.
Yes. Read some literature about the cheater mentality. It isn't caused by something lacking in their relationships, it's about something lacking in themselves. They cheat because they have low self-esteem and next external validation. Has she gotten counseling and worked on herself and her problems? I would not go forward with her until you k ow these answers.