I think you're being perfectly reasonable. I wouldn't let my man do that to me, either.
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he sounds to be acting sus. have you confronted your sister about the pic?
I think we just need to talk about this and I will tell him he's being stupid again... After the messages with the female friend he quit talking to her(even tho i told him that him tellin her he loved her was NOT what I had the problem with.) :( and hes known her since he was 17... Said he doesnt want her to come between us
being very reasonable. i say you need to find someone who YOU can actually trust, even if it means starting all over with another lover, you already seem sweet & people need to do what ever makes them happy, so do exactly that, do whatever makes you happy. xoxo
I say, if he is deleting them before you can even see them, there is a reason, other than the pictures look bad? What kind of excuse is that?
And I'd be having a talk with my sister! Wow.
No your not over reacting.your being reasonable.i wouldnt like to be cheated on.he doesnt deserve to be married,disgusting....yuccckhhh
Its hard to tell but your not overreacting its just what happened in the text has shaken you so don't
trust your instincts.
I dont think ur over reacting because this happens to alot of people.. haha even me n my boyfriend n we have been going out for already 3yrs... How is he when u guys are at home is he distant wit u short talking hiding his phone when ur around or wat??
As a guy, to me his actions sound suspicious to say the least. Next time you catch something such as the I.m. or photos don't react but wait until you can investigate it further.
In law enforcement there is a concept called reasonable suspicion, defined as an action or activity that would lead the average person to believe that a crime is or has been committed. You seem to have reasonable suspicion that he may be messing around.
totally... what he's doing doesn't sound right... and those are the same things my dad did before my parents split because he was cheating on her...
U are being completely reasonable because what he is doing sounds totally suspicious
I think you are reacting the way you should ....suspicious! I also think you have every reason to BE suspicious . He is lying. And deleting the evidence because he is guilty.do you have any (male)people text you that they love and miss you? Thought not. Any pictures of some guys 6pack abs or muscles? Thought not. He's deceiving you for sure. Even if there has not been actual physical interaction.(which is what he will tell you). Beware
i didnt realized that you were so young and i hate to call it again but he is a player and looking and or playing with anything that will show him interest and before i would let him ruin your family he would be gone -
he's guilty.... I would not trust him... you need to keep an eye out on him.. especially when he freaked because you caught him... he's hiding something
Ever wonder why his ex used to check up on him. I'm with you. It's not that my husband and I don't have our issues but what we have totally is trust. He keeps giving you reason to distrust him. How are these things "accidents?". That's insulting. NO, YOU ARE NOT OVER REACTING.
Bottom line, based on what has been written, you are being reasonable. He probably loves you more than anything else in his life. BUT in my opinion he appears to have a few problems. He seems to keep old relationships smoldering along he should let them go and cut them off completely. He is careless in taking and saving pictures that he doesn't want you to see. X wifes and X husbands can be a pain long after a divorce. All loose ends need to be tied off. If there are children involved it can be more difficult. He needs a straight talking to and be told to straighten out or lose what he has.
Taking a picture of your sisters chest...that right there shows how low he will go..maybe having a convo with that other chick is ok...but you can't get ride of your sister so how he feels about her won't go away..well your prob going to stay with him..so just make sure he spends all his money on you if he has any..and why didnt you keep looking at what else he has rather then just seeing one thing and telling him?
I would not tolerate any sign of infidelity but that is me, and I'd probably do my own PI work and swipe his phone. My husband has all access to my phone and I his. If he's hiding something then he is not being honest with you. Sorry. I hope he turns things around.
wow like my man does that to me all the time and i really hate it but u really have the balls to tell him what u saw i just keep in in and it really hurts
GO TALK TO THE EX-WIFE. IT WORKS!!! no one has mentioned that but I guarantee you'll have similar stories.
Girl trust your gutt, if my husband did that sh*t id be gone and never give him a chance to do it again. He is clearly interested in other ppl and not letting your marriage hold him back, hell yes he got mad at you . you caught him and he has nothign els eto do but turn it around on you and be mad at you and make it your fault..... sorry you have to deal with that:(
dont let him treat you like that your yourself your being very resonable
You are NOT overreacting. However, I don't think you should split just yet. Sit down with him and lay down the rules: he is not to keep information from you. He is to tell you where he goes and whom he talks to (opposite sex situation, of course). If he is not willing to follow those two rules he can hit the bricks.
You are not over reacting. "Trust is a very big in a relationship" And, why does he need to be having "Love you" conversations with girls and inappropriate pictures of other females. He should only want those of you! Have you spoke to any of your friends or family about this? Because I am telling you if you want this relationship to last put an end to it now. Good Luck!
Look honey I am a therapist and I have been hearing this a lot and it always comes down to if you don't trust someone that mean you know in your heart he is not to be trusted..we as human beings let our emotions get the best of us because we either love them too much or feel we can't live without them and we forget about critical thinking if a guy instead of explaining gets mad because he doesn't want to tell you the truth if a guy deletes something it's because you can't see it ...why? I'll leave that up to you...If you have more question feel free to ask at an email I have for clients..marthasanchez090793@gmail.com I'll be happy to assist
