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Howdo I say no to a second date without hurting his feelings?

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Jhamilton918

He honest, better he know the truth and hurt for a minute than walk around wandering what happened.

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If he don't mind hurting your feelings by asking you on the second date then don't worry about his.

If he asks you on the second date then he's only wanting one thing and that one thing isn't your heart, friendship or a date.

By asking on the first date he needs his feelings hurt. Guys these days think women are supposed to just give themselves up to them without any time to fall in love or know each other well.

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I think you should tell him that you value your friendship (if you are friends). Or you can simply say that you are looking into someone else or something like that.

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Tell him you enjoyed your time though you don't think a second date would work out. Basically, just be honest :) better then lying and him being even more hurt or upset when he finds out later

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Just say the restaurant is on fire that u got to go... Jk, just tell him no thank you but his just not your type he has to respect your honesty

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Say it as kindly and clearly as possible. You can not be responsible for how someone is going to react.

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That's right!
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honeybear2324

I think umyou should tell him let's be friends

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U might just have to tell him your sorry ur just not interested.

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I'm a guy and I don't like girls lying to some of my friends (that are sometimes losers) but be honest. It helps.

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Good advice!!
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Thank you
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I am proposed to some one.

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Tell him hes not ur type or that ur interestedin sumone else...it always wurks;)

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Tell him no that you don't think it is appropriate for him to ask that soon in a relationship.

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