I'm a 15 year old girl and tbbh I don't really listen to my mom bc she's really over protective I'm shocked that she's told you how many times she had sex in a month though:/ you should be grateFull that she tells you stuff like that though I suppose cause I don't tell my mom especially if I'm seeing a boy I just get myself grounded
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Last edited at 6:30AM on 6/1/2012
...'-' You don't know what to do?!? Ground her forever until she realizes she can't just go out and do what she wants like she's 20! And take everything away and tell her she's not allowed to be with him anymore!
Depending on the age of the guy, you could press charges against him for statutory rape. You could also contact your local court system about getting counseling for your "unruly child". Girls at that age are very hard to deal with; they feel as though they are adults and that they know everything...it isn't until later in life that they realize they didn't know anything at 15. She may "hate" you for doing the things I mentioned, but it's much better to nip it in the bud now that deal with a grandchild when your baby is still a baby.
This is what you do uu talk to her and say do u want to live hear and if she says yhea then u say if u want to live in my house uu better follow my rules or other wise get ur stuff and get out.........!!!!
have a in-depth conversation with her ,and give her time to know her fault ,get her do something she is intersted in,maybe a dance class,and you also can take more time to stay around her ,when she has more love, she will revise her wrong action,good luck to you
Sit down and talk. you've probably tried this before but try another. Tell her what could go wrong, why you are worried about her, that kind of stuff. She might just ignore you but keep trying to have this talk. it might only be a stage you never know.
Tough love could be the right answer. If she's REALLY out of control you could send her away (like to Military School, as someone suggested), but I would try a counselor first. I doubt grounding her would work. If she doesn't listen to you, she'd probably just sneak out. I also like the idea of getting her involved in an activity she would enjoy. But the bottom line is that she HAS to be educated. She is not the only teen who does things her parents are against. She needs to understand how her own reproductive system works, and for the love of glory, put that girl on birth control!