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How do I love myself unconditionally?

Two guys were flirting openly with my friend, and I felt invisible. I went from feeling like an 8 to feeling like a 2. How can I be confident regardless of whether a guy likes me or not?

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Now, let me get this straight. You feel bad about yourself because the guys chose to flirt with her and not with you? First of all you should never rate yourself, we are all equals on this planet so there is no need to do that. There are many reasons guys chose to flirt with certain girls, and it doesn't all involve how pretty a girl is. Actually, sometimes I chose the less pretty girl to flirt with, because the really hot girl is too intimidating. And I will usually only flirt with people I know, did the 2 guys know you. It also depends on how well you flirt back. I wouldn't worry about it too much. They were probably too intimidated by your prettiness. Just pretend it never happened ;)

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Hang out with uglier people.

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To love yourself unconditionally, learn to talk to yourself in a positive and loving way. Don't be too hard on yourself, by forgiving yourself for the mistakes you may have made in the past. Start working toward how and what you want to do and be, with a positive attitude by working to attain higher purposes and greater appreciation of yourself. Further information can be found at http://www.positivelypresent.com/2011/02/learn-to-love-yourself-unconditionally.html.

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Know that men always go for the one they think is the weaker one and remember, he that is for you will be with you.

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Thanks. I'm not sure what you mean by 'he that is for you will be with you'.
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First never think just because a guy dosnt flirt with you thinks your unatractive also clear that mindset that your ugly tell yourself your BEAUTYFUL and each day you say it believe it also a girl who is confident in her skin will have that glow that attracts guys to flirt with them it's just how you present yourself

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through God,and maybe your friend seems more open 2 flirt with,less respectful,guys tend 2 not flirt with women they respect or,women that dont put off that,im easy,flirt with me vibe,maybe they like you 2 much for that,even if you guys didnt know them,most guys can tell the easier girl between the 2,you are beautiful,dont ever forget that

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