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Do all married men flirt to extreme with women half their age?

extreme I mean very suggestive like

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Just the ones that need a boost to their egos for some insecure reason.

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agreed.. wait.. are we talking about the men or the women? :)
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by now, both, lol
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helllllloooooooooooooooo :)
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in my experience, yes.

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Mine doesn't.

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Are you with him around the clock? They don't usually do it when their wives are around, you know.
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No. But I trust him.
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Not all.

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I wouldn't dare!!!

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.. and yes, sweet smitty... a VERY Wise man you are indeed! My husband also applaudes your response! hahaha
Great to see you again! It's been a while!
and, of course, Greeenie for Smitty! Take Care and Hope to run into again soon! :)
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Green for you.
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Hi DebW!
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Hello there!!
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Greetings & thanks to all.
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Many men flirt any time they are out of sight of their wives, and the older they get, the worse they get until they just become gross and disgusting.

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True.
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Honestly.. Something's wrong with me.. Not pushing the buttons right.. Ok, here's my comment.. Again.. Green TDM... This is too true on so many levels... Shudder... And green!
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some men actually don't do it to young girls cause they have daughters and it grosses them out. I hate when people say "all men or all women or all blacks or all blondes" I'm the only girl at my job and some guys are dogs, but def not all.
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The person who asked the question said down below that she asked because her husband told that it's in all men's natures to flirt. (And it is.) That's why she said "all men." She didn't mean to insult you or anyone else. Lighten up.
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Thank you, I wasn't myself claiming "all" men. Every person is so different, no one can put all of men, women, blacks, etc. in one box, it just wont work. He was just trying to justify his flirtation by saying all men do it, so its ok for him to also.
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Oh great. Does he do it in front of you? If he does, you might need to take another look at him, because it's very disrespectful.
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yes

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Yes.. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM.... And every single woman half their age (and they have to fill out an age poll before they start flirting) enjoys it! Ladies!!! Just because you are hurt by a guy in a relationship, doesn't mean you should bash ALL men.. Sheesh.. It's annoying.. Most men are awesome, perhaps it's some of us women that are not.. Hmmm?

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More here.
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I said *many* men, not all. Besides, I'm in the place in my years where I've known more men than most of you have ever seen. I know that some are good, some are bad, and some are righteously bad! ;-)
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I only said "All" men because that is what my Husband told me. That it is in "all" men's natural to flirt that much.
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I meant nature, not natural. Both would work if I worded it different. lol
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Well, he knows other men better than we do, doesn't he? I believe that the ones who don't flirt, want to.
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i have to say that is true... i flirt all the time with older guys even though i would never do anything with them.
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let me correct that i instigate all the time with older guys
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Wait.. Where did my comment go?? Ok, I'll say it again..
See, this is why I love women.. Well, umm, not LOVE LOVE, cause I love my man.. Lol..But because women should champion each other.. Yay us.. Maybe I even said it better this time...
Thanks to all of you... ;)
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I think sweetpea's husband is tryin to keep her from talkin to anybody by sayin all men flirt. trust issues!!!
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Z..you "make me"...
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Awww, K.. Same... Mwuahhh ..
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I think you may have something there, Jenny..;)
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Hell to the yeah Zig, you sure got the pot stirring! I love it!
Heaven forbid any of these people ever admit they're wrong.
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@Slip--I love what you said above. I love the way women support each other, too. I'm glad that I'm a woman, always have been, but more so now than ever.
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Yay.. ThanksTDM...
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Hey FG.. What I do best, eh?? Lol...
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Yeah, I'd believe your answer before I believe someone who thinks they're never wrong.
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wait.. you Love love women or love LOVE women...? actually i know the answer.. i just like hearing you say it. i like it when you champion the women like this Zoe.. but i love it when you champion.. well "that thing you do" (geesh i like that movie too)
@TDM.. glad your on the "team" w Z
@FG.. for the most stern, the goal is to get em to think (seed planting stuff).. the admitting comes later.. one way or another :)
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Since you KNOW.. And YOU do, I'll leave the mystery alive for the kiddies...
Former, I have always (do as I say, not as I do.. Lol) despised the words always and never in relation to, well, relationships.. Because people never ALWAYS do anything, nor do they always NEVER do something.. So when people throw in ALL
People/men/women.. et al.. It turns the feisty key in Z, (me) to sarcastically challenge that.. I should have been a lawyer.. Doing therapy doesn't allow for the fight inside me to (always.. Ahhhahaha) come out swinging (for the most part)..
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lol
i always never know exactly what might just be said that could never always be understood (by most). its the feisty (just one small but impacting part) in the spunk that makes you you (my Irish belle). its that fight that makes "it ALL" possible. my favorite part.. is there are gears not seen that you have.. yes.. sometimes the gift is indeed.. in the mystery (bookend thought)
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does jus bein nice= flirting to extreme?

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No. Talking to a woman's chest, drooling down their chin, and constantly readjusting their underwear is to the extreme.;-)
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telling her he wants to pet her kitty, when she don't own a cat, is extreme!!
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And gross! I would slap a man if he said that to me. I prefer whispers in my ears...
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No most married men do not flirt with anyone except FreudianSlip, ellemacgregor and NAFTA. But they are asking for it.

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Why Rick... You sly.... TY... I'll take the compliment.. (of course, I was the first to take the flirt poll, lol) Have a beauty!
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yes thanks rick.. ill take that as a compliment as well. LOVE that Z is so engaging.. her charisma is just part of what i LOVE about her.. baby.. my pom poms are out..
and L beans too.. she is da bestest too.. ahhhhh L beans i owe you a note
Nafta.. isnt he a guy? LOL... ok????
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Poor NAFTA--he always gets dragged into these things! :-)
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NAFTA is man enough to take anything...
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NAFTA is a guy?? Man do I feel like a freaking idiot!! Don't tell him but he writes like a girl.
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Lol.. Rick.. You're crazy... I NEVER thought NAFTA was a girl.. Ahahahhaha
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Maybe that's because you ARE a girl!
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True.. And good thing I am, I kinda look like one.. Plus I have all the, umm, stuff, that "says" girl... Lol..
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Damn you I'm gonna have trouble getting to sleep tonight. But it's nothing I didn't already suspect!
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@FreudianSlip. See, see I told you! NAFTA just commented that dogs drink out of toilets because people are too lazy to put the lid down. I TOLD you he writes like a girl!!
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Yes duh men are all the same

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The hubs and I have been married for 22 years. He's a friendly guy but he's never done that. In fact when we've seem some guy flirting with a girl MUCH younger that he, my husband gets kind of embarrassed because they guy doesn't seem to know how pathetic he's acting.

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heck yes because its something we want but know we will never get it so all of y'all that, say you don't or would not dare are just not telling the truth come on tell me I'm right. you know I am.

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Mine doesn't either. He doesn't even gawk openly at scantily clad women. He looks discreetly. :)

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He's a good boy, Deb.. A keeper ;)
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love your insight coupled with reality/humor/balance
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Thank you.
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keep one tank full and the other empty. trust that you are it for each other. and talk like crazy.. its all part of the "making love" piece
and what about the throngs of women that "flirt" with guys? oh wait.. they are just being nice.. riiiiiiiight. oh id love a 4-hour car ride with your guy.
then again.. going deep is not everyone's forte (your word of the day Z)

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No. Give men more credit than that. Jerks come in both sexes and all ages. One pattern of behavior does not cover all men.

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no, i'm married and dont live with my wife, didnt see her from 6 monthes ago and still i dont even watch other girls, it's not easy but possible.

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that's good and sweet of you. stay that way..
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Absolutely not. I would not accept that behavior. Do you think he's faithful? If he acts like that in front of you, how does he act when you aren't looking?

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Don't know 100% if he is faithful. Two years ago I would say 'yes'. But not to sure now. He has talked to me the same, but not to other women in front of me. Don't know if I'm not looking, don't have eyes in back of head. Friends have said things to make me suspicious, so I did a bad thing. I checked his phone messages. And saw more then I cared to see. He claims it was all just joking and nothing sexual happened.
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You should demand he stop any and all I appropriate behavior now! Is the woman he's texting married, too?
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I say give him a taste of his own meddisosin... see how he likes it;)

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Do you think its respectful to try and ignite love though jealousy? Because I am sure you feel some and he will know it. Reverse the situation and he wouldnt like it one bit, it shows a lack of respect to your relationship. There is a fine line between friendliness and flirting and a married man shouldnt cross it

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Not all.. there are still loyal husbands in this world.

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