Please help me. I need to decide soon, and I'm stuck. Real bad. (More detail)
I'm an only child who was raised by her dad and grandma her whole life. I grew up knowing that I didn't have a mom, never knew why. I never really thought much, I mean it's been 14 years without a mom you know? But 3 years back she found a guy that knew my dads number and called and visited for a week. I met my mom for the first time of my life when I was 11. I also found out that I had two half sisters. It's now been 3 years since I've last seen her, but during those 3 years she hasn't called once or even contacted me. Last week I found out that my older half sister died in a car crash. After that, she finally called me... These 3 years I thought that she no longer cared, but now that my half sister died she calls? She wants me to go and visit and stay with her for awhile since it is summer vacation for us here. My dad says that she really want me to, and that he will let me go if I want to.. I live in Alaska. Her? Virginia. I want to go visit her, I mean. I'm happy to know that I actually do have a mom and that she didn't die or something, but 11 years she didn't even try to come for me. Then 3 years she finally calls, 14th year she wants me to visit.. I'm stuck in the middle. What should I do? Should I decide to go? PLEASE HELP ME.