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- Self acceptance, letting go of conflict, accepting others, pure enjoyment.
- The secret is "42".
- Sunshine, love & laughter. Not just today, but all the days after LOVE
LIVE, LOVE, BE HAPPY AND - SMILE - EVERYDAY..!!! Always keep the child within..

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To be truly happy, you need to find out for yourself.
In the words of a wise man, "You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life." Try and live your life. Be with those you love and have a good time.

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Confucius say " man who goes to bed with itchy butt, wakes up with stinky finger."
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@Shadowfax4 Makes sense :) I never thought of it this way before. Thank you so much, I will try harder to stay positive!
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Get a puppy

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You are so right!
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without fleas
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Aw, I wish :( I LOVE dogs, but my Dad's allergic to them. Thanks anyway, though!
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so basicly -puppy dies = happiness dies?
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i would hafta say friends

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I wish I were better at making friends :( I would be a lot happier.
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love

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Hahahahahahaha!!!! Nice one! Tell another joke!!!
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im pray for you :D!!!!!!!!
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god loves you itll be ok
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KFaith thank you so much! I really really appreciate it. And I'm trying to become closer to God and believe everything's going to be ok. God bless you!
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God. He loves you. If you love Him then you will be happy. So, Miss YoungWildAndFree, You my be young and you may be wild, but your not free until you find God

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Amen<3 Thank you for your amazing advice, I am trying to become closer to God. God bless you!
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thanks. God bless you 2:D
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well, it isnt the same for everyone, but for me it was being around people that loved me, and my religion, the latter day saints-better known as Mormons. i know it sounds weird, and im not trying to convert you or anything (unless you want to look more into it ;) but it is true. it also helps to have a purpose, or to feel needed, or to help others. again, i know it sounds weird, but once i started focusing on those things, i DID become happier, whether people believe it or not. and, like i said, everyone is different, but that's what it was like for me. good luck! i hope you do find happiness.

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I'm Christian, so I will try to get more into my religion. And being Mormon doesn't sound weird to me, it's just different. I have no problem excepting difference! Thank you so much for your great advice :)
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Do what makes you happy:)
Be rationel and methodical. Make a list of your strength, your weakness, your values and the things that makes you happy to do all day.
Do a mindmap, and figure out how to make money on what you care for most!

Religion is for people who cant figure out their own meaning of life, and need a quick fix of happiness. Do it your self and you find true meaning, purpose and happiness.
All the best.

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how dare you. you dont know anything
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hurtful
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Doing the things you love and surrounding yourself with only good people :)

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Well I'm a christian and I don't think you will listen to me but just give me a second. The secret to happiness is joy,J.O.Y. It means the order you put people. First you put Jesus, than Others than You,J.O.Y. So if you have religion like me it means read the bible, pray, all that stuff (but if you don't have religion skip that part). Than you do others be nice and do things to make others happy. If there's something you want to get off your back do it. That will take stress away from you and replace it with happiness. Then treat yourself. (OR TO SUM IT ALL UP PUT OTHERS BEFORE YOURSELF)

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This is great advice! :) And I will listen to you, I'll try, I promise. J.O.Y...I love it, I'll remember that! God bless
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thank you come to Jesus and young wild and free but I just herd it from church and treasured it so it's not me. But I did make it sound more like me and how I would explain it.
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Learn to love yourself:)

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I'll try :( Thanks for your advice
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Jesus! (:

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Amen, I agree with you<3 And God bless!
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I'm thinking that happiness is fleeting but joy lasts forever. I don't think there is real joy until one falls into the arms of God. Oh, and getting a puppy is a great idea:)

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Following your dream. Doing what you love.

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God, God is True Love and Happiness, Love is God True
For Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life.

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Amen<3 :) Thank you, God bless!
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There is no secret.You know the things that make you happy..the things you do...the things you feel..the things you think. Nobody can take those things from you. Relish in what YOU enjoy. Buy some cheap luggage at an airport auction and take a trip by yourself !

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god

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Amen<3 Thank you
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accepting god in your life

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Amen<3 Thanks for your advice!
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Happiness is owning nothing and owing nothing no phone
or mail so basically homeless
It is the true and total peace of knowing you need nothing from anyone Except Jesus! Think Im crazy,,, well I think anyone who doesn't believe is crazy Remember they thought Jesus was a warlock and thought he was crazy too....Peace! : )

PS Dont count on others for happiness count on you....You, will never let you, down
Good luck and cheer up make your life all it can be












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This doesn't sound crazy at all, it makes a lot of sense :) Thanks God bless you
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Stay single! But truthfully, you will never find it by asking other people. Good luck

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Thanks :) This makes sense
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spongebob!!!

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lol :D
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You really just need to look on the bright side of everything. Is your cup half empty or is it half full?

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doing what you want to do and not worrying about what others think about you or anything..

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I try so hard not to worry what anyone else thinks, but it's not easy sometimes :( thanks for your advice!
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don't follow justin bieber

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Forget you! Justin Bieber's amazing
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It doesn't matter what you get or what you do its simply a choice. Mentally choose to be happy nothing is stopping you but yourself.

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I try :( I wish it were easier for me to just stay positive!
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There is no secret. The beginning of happiness is to have a firm grasp on what's right in front of you

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Well hello there Mr. Fortune cookie
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Yoshika no one asked you. This is great advice, enderwiggin. Thanks so much!
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I try very hard to be relevant and fruitful and always hope that someone can benefit from my wisdom. Most of it was learned in the school of hard knocks. Peace
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Love like never been hurt? ­Sing like nobody's listening to?
­Work like don't need money? ­Live like this is the end of the world

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I love this!!! Thank you so much for you advice, I will remember this quote :)
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Try cosplay . . . it worked for me

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You need someone to love something to do and something to look forward to. Someone told me this once. It makes sense find a partner get a job go on vacation. A job that you can put up with mind you. Its pretty generic there is no one answer. Im not sure what your going through but i know that you are capable. Dont let anyone tell you that you can't. Live love and learn.

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It really does make sense, this is great advice :) I'll take it, and try to stay positive! Thanks, and God bless
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I need some kinds

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HAPPINESS ISN'T A SECRET! EVERYONE IS BORN HAPPY, ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS REALIZE THAT YOUR LIFE IMPACTS OTHERS, AND THAT TOGETHER OUR LIVES IMPACT HISTORY! THINK HONOR, THINK INDEPENDENCE, THINK air, AND BE GREATFUL TO BE ALIVE AND PART OF THIS BEAUTIFUL CHANGING WORLD!!!

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to marry the girl or man of your dreams if it didn't workout then a nice cigar always makes me happy that is until i marry the girl of my dreams

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"Have a purpose, if not, find one. It's what we do for other's that make's us happy, but some people have to "learn" this on their on. Having shared, listened to someone that need's a ear, that should make you feel happy, or, please go outside...really LOOK AROUND...life owe's us little, it was given to us, We owe it everything!...lastly, don't look for anyone else to make you happy, find it within. We have one shot in this life, good luck"...:)

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Lean to accept yourself! & be the best you ! And walk to your own drummer!

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getA LIFE

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God. pray to God to show you the right path. that is the key to happiness. it brings you peace in your life.

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Free drugs and booze

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Pills with the smiley faces. Heard they work.

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M&M's ? lol
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simple...understand that everything and everyone here is already whole, complete and perfect, as it is and they are. this with nothing added or taken away. past regrets and future projections will drive anyone bonkers sooner or later. just remember...This Is It!

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lower your exspectation....so everything always turns out better.... find what makes u happy and surround ur self with that....spend some time being alone and find yourself..

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The happiest people surround themselves with family and friends,The key to happiness is to appreciate what you have.


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Not being one of the millions of people that have had a life of struggling and living poor. Then finding out you have cancer at the same time you find out your going to be a grandma to a grandchild you won't be able to see grow up. For me I will never find out the meaning of happiness.



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Happiness will always be just out of reach if you chase after it
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God

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well Ill say if you need to be happy.... probably a real good way is to start out with exercise and eat healthy, its proven to increase ones mood, as you release endorphin's while you exercise and when you balance this with a good diet you have a winner. you can check this if you like to find out more <a href="http://958d69ra1mxocw5h7ggapasv-l.hop.clickbank.net/"; target="_top">Visit here</a> I know this will help you get on the right track. ;)

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Meditation, finding yourself. Speaking foreign languages. Looking pretty. Acceptance

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being happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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other people who you love and who love you back

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