Is it selfish to stay in a relationship when you love someone else?
I started seeing someone new a few months ago and I keep going in and out of their life because I am really still in love with my ex but I know that there is no chance of going back with them. Now... I feel like I am being selfish by staying in this relationship with the new person when my feelings are all directed at someone else? I'm hoping that I can fall in love with this new person but I am afraid that if I don't, i'm just setting them up to be hurt the same way that I was hurt. Any opinions here?