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My best friend says that she hates life. Anyway i can make her stop saying that?!

we both hav stressful lives but i ingorne the stress, she doesnt. idk if this matters but her nd her bf is not going so well. that and she keeps telling me that my long distance realtionship isnt going to work nd im gonna regret it. any help on how to make her happy again?? plz help! thanks

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encourage her to meet new people, go new places, and do new things. Compliment her on different areas of her life and work to rebuild her self esteem. Encourage her to go to church and worship and strengthen her relationship with Christ! Tell her that she is important to you and you love her!

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K... Thanks nd she already goes 2 church.
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Tell her that you want to still be friends but if she is going to continue like this,there's no reason that you should be friends

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I'll try thanks
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Well show how much you care for her....dont overdo it! Take her out...to have a girlfriends relax day and tell her that your here for her when ever she needs something...

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I do and all she does is say thanks. I just want her 2 get her dumb bf off her mind and she cant
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Wow, thank God I dont have a b/f cause right now I am in that kind of mindset...about life! But what she needs to know is there are people who care for her and she is not seeing it right now, just give it time, and keep by her side
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Lol... And thanks. I appricate ur answer. Also when im in a long distance thing and all she ever do is tell me itz not worth it and i'll regret it(which is kinda all ready happening) but just itz kinda annoying. But i'll deff give it time. Thanks again!
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Your Welcome
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Let her know that people love her and care for her...including you!

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I will/do! Thanks
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Tell her people care for her and the world would be less happy without her

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She may be depressed and she needs professional counseling. Friends are wonderful but many times wr can feel alone in the middle of a crowd of people who love us. Convince her to seek professional help ASAP.

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