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Ok so my mom is really been judging me a lot about my weight.when we were going to go somewhere i changed into shorts that werent so short

and then i went and asked her if it looks ok and she said its "ok" but its too short. then im like howz it too short if last year u let me wore it in public and then she said that because i had fatt legs... i felt like cryingg...then later on b4 we went to asleep i went to say goodnight she looked at me and motioned that i had a fat stomach that im almost like her .....shes 205 im 150lbs i dont really look like im almost the same weight and she always judges me...i alwayz feel like telling her that why shes telling me things when shes bigger than me ... i dont know why she suddenly started telling me about my weight but it gets me really depressed ....any tips on this or a possibility on why she might have started doing this?!?

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I'm sorry you're going through this, no mother should EVER do/say things like this to their child. If I were you, I'd simply talk to my mom. I know you said you don't want to, but it is very important that your mom knows what she is doing to you. Tell her how it makes you feel when she calls you fat, and maybe mention doing things together, like going on a nightly walk or jog, or even going to zumba or some other exercising event. This will get you guys doing positive things together. Good luck sweetie, keep your chin up. <3

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One it's because she is jealous and wants to look like you and be your weight. She is just hating because you are looking good. Two she wants to wear shorts like yours. Three she wants to make her self feel better. Don't let it being you down I'm sure your beautiful.

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If she is overweight, she probably feels insecure about her own looks and takes it out on someone else. It sounds horrible since you are her daughter, but she may be jealous of you.

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agree^
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Post photos I will give you a straight answer.

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its ok it hurts, tell her she shiuldnt be mean to you especcially because shes your mom

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I think that is really sad. Your mother should be nice to you regardless of your weight. And no matter what I'm sure you are pretty and if it really your weight bothers you, it's not like it can't go away. I hope things get better between you and your mom.

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maybe your mom can't understand you ? i fought like hell trying to get past your incredibly
horrible grammar. my God !!!!!!!

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Umm sorry?
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hey 1d dont be sorry. i shouldn't have said that please except my appology ? you can get one on me ok ? we'll call it even !!! will come back for your zinger so make it good !!! lol.take care.you are going to be ok... i'll come clean.. i just posted to you on another question you have out here . didnt no this was you till i just came back.. please read my other entry thank you 1d
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Needs to loss some wight cus its unhealthy... But maybe be more tactful next time. I dont know how old or how tall you are to tell if that's unhealthy? she probliy doesnt want you to be unhealthy like her, but just doesnt know how to nicely say it. talk to her about this. mayb you two can get healthy together and bond;)

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