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El sol saldrá de nuevo My father, that I loved dearly, passed away when I was 14. He was my ideal, I looked up to him for everything. He was a criminal investigator, but due to lack of man power, he participated in raids. He was mortally wounded, and was sent to a hospital. On his deathbed, those were his final words to me. The sun will rise again. Sometimes, things happen, that we don't understand. Maybe, his death turned me into the man I am today.
You feel a loss but your mom is in no more pain! She is watching down on you from the most indescribably amazing place you could ever imagine. Instead of being upset, be happy that your mom will never feel pain again and is living happier than we can even understand. You'll see her again, just not yet!
I'm sorry for your loss. I believe God knows that we will at some point be mad at him. In fact, I'd say anyone that has never been mad at God really hasn't yet known what it means to know God. May her memory be eternal.
It's ok to be angry with God.... It's just important that you go to Him to work it out. He wants you to come to Him with everything... Talk it out, cry it out, scream it out if you have to but go to Him first. He should be the person we go to in happiness and sorrow. Our world is filled with the curse of disease and pain and it affects all people and sadly no one is exempt. So sorry for your pain and your loss. Matthew 28:20....."and surely I am with you always to the very end of the age." He's holding you in the palm of His hand.
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Last edited at 7:46PM on 6/10/2012
No, it's not ok, though I won't deny that I have gotten mad at God too. I think he understands. I remember a time in my life when I didn't pray to God because I was going through I had time. I look back and seriously regret it, because he could have helped me. God knows best, and he understands how we feel, he also can help. Instead of getting angry with him, pray to him for comfort, guidance, and help. Too often we think of trials or hard times as reasons that God doesn't exist or to get angry at God when instead we should be reaching to God for help. I remember just last time I was at my friend's, who has a rare terminal disease, having to see her throw up tissue and blood. Now, it's always hard to see her in so much pain but this was especially hard. I came home at about 11, and I really wanted to talk to my mom, but she was in bed. I went to my room in tears, feeling so alone. So scared and worried. I remember praying to my heavenly father, I told him what I saw, and how I was so scared and worried about her, and I just balled. I prayed about it for a while, mostly just sharing. I remember feeling my pain eased a bit, and feeling a peace come over me, and feeling really warm all over, like I was being held. I felt like I was being heard, and comforted, and in that time, that's really what I needed. I am so sorry for your loss, but please don't find a reason to be angry with God! He loves you so much, and he wants to be there for you, and he can be your listener and comforter. Don't be angry at him, because that shuts that out. I believe God has appointed a time on this earth for each of us, a time to be born, and a time to die. Her time must be up now, and I am sorry for your heartache. Please share it with your father, he wants to hear from you. He doesn't want you to be sad. But we will always have trials, and sometimes heartache, because we need to prove faithful in all things. But he can help us through it. May your mom rest in peace <3 (I'm sorry for the essay!)
God has nothing to do with your loss. Nothing in life happens for a reason just by mere chance. God does not interfere with our lives. This world is in satan's control and he's having a field day for now, don't worry though for jesus will raise the dead to be judged..(: and you should never be mad at god because the bible itself says that our life is full of unforeseen circumstances. (ecclesiastes 9:11)
It is okay. He understands your anger. Tell Him and ask Him about it. God is saddened by the evil in tbe world that causes suffering and death. He didnt necessarily take her. Sometimes death just happens. Evil like cancer happens because we humans allowed evil to enter the world. Believe me God grieves with you over your moms suffering and death. Talk to Him about it. Tell Him how you feel. I am so sorry for your loss
I'm very sorry to hear this:( I know it seems hopeless right now, trust me I've lost loved ones to cancer. But everything has a reason for happening. If you really have strong faith in god you will accept that everyone's time will come. I know you're depressed right now but being mad at god isn't gonna bring her back. God willed it to happened so it happened everyone will meet their maker eventually. Again I offer my sincerest condolences and I hope you feel better soon :)
You know honey, I lost my mom to cancer too when I was a teenager. God loves us and He sees when we are angry with Him and we matter to Him. I believe His heart hurts to see us hurt. But, what we don't understand sometimes or at least at a particular time, is that our anger sometimes is misguided. That may be hard to hear and believe when we see sickness and suffer loss, but we must also know that what we may not understand now, we may have much more understanding later. If you know Jesus in your heart, and as you grow in His Grace and understanding, there are many things that you will see clearer too. That may help you, I hope, as well. But the Bible says, "Come, let us reason together". You can go to Him in prayer and be open and tell Him you feel angry with Him or whatever is your heart's honest prayer and ask Him to help you. And, please remember, He has promised to comfort His children who know Him. I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. And, I do want to encourage you to go ahead and let God know, in prayer, how you fell. He already knows but it may help you to tell Him and don't be afraid to ask Him to help you. God Bless you sweetie and again, I'm sorry.
Yes. It is sometimes natural to be angry with God at times, when our world is down. We often wonder if He's really there with us, if He's really guiding us through hard times in life. He is. He can take your anger. But at the same time, we must come to Him in our prayers, and He will offer peace and guidance. If strong anger turns into hate and desire to hurt others, it is sinful. If this anger hardens and turns into hate for God, it is mortally sinful, and we must confess. God will offer His love and peace, and then there will be no need to be angry at Him anymore. As for cancer and, God does not create abuse and disease, but He sometimes PERMITS them. Evil is a mystery; we can never understand it completely. But this does not mean we cannot understand anything about it. (My answer continues in the comments)
No it's not ok...God has His own reasons...you don't know maybe something much worst will happen to your mom if she lived...and that's is a test for you to see will you be patience or not...this might be a sign from God...to warn you or to give you a chance to change your life and your religion...may Allah(God) guide you to the right path :) Amen :) Have a nice day :)
I am sorry for what happened God still loves you and he had a purpose for what happened seems like crap right now but trust me! I was mad soo mad at God and i think all of us were at one time story? Okay so I was born different as a baby I always took gasps like asthma gasps for air (no I dont have asthma) I (please hold your laughter or insulting comments) I was a mouth breather. My adenoids were to big (which happens to a lot of biracial kids) my tonsils were to big! when I was in 6th grade a girl came from a public school so she comes to me trips me and says oops I guess the force wasn't with you that time, ( i was darth vader ) then started making herself cry and told the teachers how I made fun of her ADHD (not true) so I got detention then I told the teacher my side but she never got detention. I went home I say there in out rage you did this on purpose I was so pissed at God 3 of these people I could talk to all the time where dead gone! The bully always made my problem worse with breathing and I had a bit of a speech problem with some words so teased again! Our life's not gonna be perfect and all though you are probably pissed at God remember we have bumps there is always a reason for anything under God!!!!!
My mother was taken by breast cancer as well. To answer your question, choose one of the following:
1) There is no God - humans made up numerous Gods - and fabricated elaborate stories about each of them.
2) God is there but is incapable of helping humans.
3) God is there but refuses to help humans no matter how much we pray or worship him (God is a male).
4) God actually enjoys watching his creatures suffer - which means he's an evil God.
5) God may exist, but he's unaware of humans - therefore, he's a God with limitations.
In the end, you will see that there is absolutely no evidence for a God or Gods - it's all been drilled into children by religious indoctrination. If we do eventually find solid evidence of a God, we may find he's no lover of humans, since he never intercedes in cases of humans dying of diseases such as cancer. This is not a God I will want to worship.
However, given that there is no evidence for God - and all that is known about him or any of his other God friends, and given that there is absolutely no evidence for the supernatural - no matter what you've been told - even by people you trust - you'll come to the inevitable conclusion that the faithful need God - so they created him.
I know the pain you must be in and if I could relieve you of any of it I would - but I will not lie to you.