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I hate myself so much I am ugly but no Spongebob can't.make me proud amd I feel so alone. why you no talk to me? And to make it worse my boyfriend won't go out with me

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magdalene

Begin to try to focus on your good points. If you don't think of some quickly then it's because you are so discouraged and you will find good about yourself so don't quit until you can come up with as many as you can. Write them down and read them to yourself. Quit thinking negative and bad things, but fill your mind with as many good thoughts as you can. Try not to focus on the boyfriend, but instead on how you are going to overcome this discouragement and keep trying. Yes, pray. And if you desire, there may be some good Christian pastor speaking on tv right now to listen to. Or tune in a radio if you have one and look for uplifting Christian music to encourage you. Think of ways to improve your situation in a healthy manner and fight off the thoughts of the negative. Replace them with as many positive things as you can. And....give it time. Things can improve and then, you will see, you made it through and even came out stronger. Let that be your goal and strive to meet that goal. Do it for yourself! You are important and valuable!

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One word......GOD! If you follow and talk to god he will help and lead you into a happy place so just pray and ask Him to help

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IloveTaylor
Great answer green
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Amen, brother!!!!! :)
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alwysdrm
Green
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magdalene
yes. green
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idontknow you but that's sweet(:
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Thanks guys :)
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Thanks but i am God none of you exist you are all imaginary
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Of course you are
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your welcome(:
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Break up with him, a boyfriend would go out with you, that's really messed up of him

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loose him(: you deserve WAYY better than him (: trust me. . and also just pray always(:

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Hey dont feel like that.Everyone is beautiful in their own way.Dont go by your looks.If you wanna talk to someone then you can talk to me.No hard feelings.I will more than happy to help you.

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Beauty comes from within<3 once you realize you are perfect just the way you are, you will begin to emit that aura that makes people truly beautiful, and others will see it. Learn to love yourself and others will do the same. Also, break up with that sorry son of a gun, because he is a waste of your time.(:

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alwysdrm

I would like to help, but am a bit confused as to what the question is...
Maybe you are hatin gb yourself because you aren't where you would like yo be in your life. Try to think of one single thing that would be the best thing in the world for you and work on getting yourself there. Work on your self image (wear a lil makeup, do your hair nice, wear a cute outfit...). As far as the boyfriend... Get rid of him because he doesn't deserve you if he won't go out with you.

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She doesn't need to use chemicals to make her self image better she is beautiful just how she is you weren't born with that trash on you were born with your natural beautiful face that's all she needs if she beleves she is beautiful then she will have more self confidence and THAT will help her "self image" it only matters if you think good about yourself others opinions will soon follow the same path
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I dont wear make up at all because Im happy with myself, but some people need a little help to make themselves feel pretty and there is NOTHING wrong with that.... My point is nore to take care of yourself and present yourself as if YOU know your beautiful and others will see it too.
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But I'm truey ugly, in and out. And im.. Alllll byyy maaa sellllf
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alwysdrm
Do something about it!! Stop being an ugly person on the inside!... Do good deeds. Think about others before yourself... As far aa physical beauty .. That is in the eye of the beholder
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2vestal1 No you're not everyone is beautiful and one person once sang "Even though I'm on my own I know that I'm not alone I know there's someone somewhere praying that I make it home" this could relate to you because you may feel alone but you're not and your old self is wating for you to realize that you still are beautiful and you always have been
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Idontknow you but YOUR BEAUTIFUL (: don't ever forget it (: !!

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That's sweet
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You're an amazing person, even if I don't know you but you sound sweet!
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Thank Y'all(:
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I know you might think I'm a creep but, he doesn't deserve you your to beautiful. in and out.

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I'm pretty sure you made her smile :D Jake (:
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alwysdrm
Green. :)
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Thanks, but.. In the words of Tyra banks, YOU DON'T KNOW ME, YOU DON'T KNOW WHO I AM. Tje thing is, I have a bad personality and im a pusher
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You're sweet
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If you were a bad person you wouldn't be worrying about what others think. :)
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oh I'm sorry I hope I helped. . and thanks (:
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awe poor Jake :/
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magdalene
Well vestal, you can't change the past. But, you can change the present and the future some. If you make that list of good things about yourself like mentioned in one of the answers, then here's one of the good things you might consider writing down....I'm sorry for my actions and that shows good character. And, part of the goal might be....I'm going to change what I can change and let go of what I can't. And then, look, that adds one more positive thing to your list of good qualities...maybe one good quality being, I try to improve things for myself and others when it is in my power to do so. And, please Don't be afraid to get help! That, again, adds to the positive things about your character and positive traits. The list goes on! You really can make it such a long list of positive things just by asking what choices you can make, trying to make the good choices, and bit by bit, with endurance and consistency, a good change will be brought about. Guilt will lessen from plagueing you hopefully and you will begin to feel better about yourself and what changes you are trying to make with your life. I truly hope this helps you and I wish the best for you.
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Don't even think that you are beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise and as for your boyfriend break up with him a true loving boyfriend would love you for you and you would be absolutely perfect in his eyes don't worry you may have flaws but that's what makes you you and it makes you unique and perfectly imperfect just how you should be every soul on this Earth is beautiful and amazing and just plain great including you

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Dont even think you are beautiful? ... Do u mean you ARENY beautiful
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*ARENT .. Sorry
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Ok I'm not all that into to them but listen to One Direction's 'What Makes You Beautiful' it applys to you to:)
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I dont have self image problems, but thanks. Lol.... I just thot that your answer was a type-o because it says dont even tjink that you ARE beautiful ...which implies she isnt.... And everyone is in their oen way
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I'm with conpro on this one. I went through this kind of thing. I couldn't look in a mirror without crying. I was so disgusted with myself. I honestly didn't want to be alive. I prayed every single night to god, asking for happiness. He answered my prayers, and now I'm happy as can be. Give it a try, it works.

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Awww </3 but it's more than looks, I absolutely hate my self in and out. Thank God I'm in therapy lol
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if your bf aint going out with u then he aint ur bf .lol .. and 2 u shiuld never put urself down like that and always give urself credit for who u r,not for who ur not

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YOU are beautiful inside and out do you know why because God made you!!!!! He's Gods masterpiece she's Gods masterpiece I am Gods masterpiece YOU Are Gods masterpiece!!!! So I think you should dump your boyfriend, and start being positive about yourself. even though others don't see you as princess beauty you still go you who freaking cares what everybody else says! :) I will pray for you because with ur depression JESUS is the way we will guide you to the right path:D

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