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HotMAMAinSA: 11 months ago

I can only get my boyfriend's attention when I threaten to end our relationship & start seeing other people. What do I do?

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fvhofland: 11 months ago via iPhone

Don't just threaten do it!! Sounds to me like you guys need some time apart. Sometime we get to caught up in just being in a relationship we forget how important the other person really is to us. So by breaking up with him for a while maybe he'll realize hey I messed up I had a good thing going and now I don't! Have you heard the saying of you love something let it go and I it's ment to be it will come back. Try it!! It's better to find out now than years down the road.

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aworldfullofcoulor: 11 months ago

Break up with him. You're obviously not doing well with him

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Kuckleburg: 11 months ago

You should probably quit threatening him and just move on. You obviously cant keep his attention. He loves his iphone.
He knows you are just making threats.
Find someone that would really love the attention you want to share and savor it.

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aaronbear: 11 months ago

Do just what you threatened to do and see how long he lasts without you. That will teach him a lesson.

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jazzjazz1: 11 months ago

Leave him alone, ignore him, treat him like he treats you. It sounds like he thinks he has you all to himself maybe even using you. I am sorry to tell you that, but I wish someone had told me. GOOD LUCK TREAT HIM LIKE DIRT can't hurt.

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cerebrogasm: 11 months ago via iPhone

Lose him - but learn from this and don't let it happen again. If you have to resort to threats to keep him, you don't have a real relationship - you have a hostage situation. There are plenty of fish in the sea that will cherish you - let them know you're on the market.

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sjylady: 11 months ago via Android

oh you sound like me

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HotMAMAinSA: 11 months ago

What did you do?

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lulabelle: 11 months ago via iPhone

Dump him and move on.

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reneebond: 11 months ago via Android | Last edited at 6:59PM on 6/11/2012

just that,end your relationship and start dating other people,you do not have 2 kep threatening or asking some1 2 give attention,if they love you,it comes naturally,do you want 2 be asking 4 the rest of your life???,take a punch,suck it up and,move on,this isnt the right 1 for you

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