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Kevtacular
Kevtacular: 1 year ago via iPhone

What does it mean when a girl says I need to think about it?

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I_love_my_kids
I_love_my_kids: 1 year ago



It means she needs to think about it.

Sometimes she really needs to think things over but, for the most part she like to lead you on by having you wait for an answer.

You have probably seen in the movies where a guy asks a girl out over the phone and she's free but, says, I don't know let me check my other appointments.

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alex1414
alex1414: 1 year ago

For what ever she need to think about she need time to sort out her feelings and get the strain i no thats what i do when i say i need to think about it !!

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sommer
sommer: 1 year ago

It means she needs to ponder on that specific issue or thought. Sometimes it takes time to make a smart decision and well she is probably thinking on what to do next

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jackson1250
jackson1250: 1 year ago

It literally means that she is unsure. Girls generally approach an invitation negatively. - "Why should I?" Men generally think "Why shouldn't I?"

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melodymaker7007
melodymaker7007: 1 year ago

no.period....

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emilypoet25
emilypoet25: 1 year ago

It means they actually need to think about it.

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xxace
xxace: 1 year ago

There isn't a subliminal message there Hun lol. If there's a Situation, she's probably thinking the opposite you are and she needs you to think about the problem to form an agreement, apologize, or make matters better.

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VirginiaL
VirginiaL: 1 year ago | Last edited at 2:27PM on 7/17/2011

Hi Kevtacular,

Sometimes also 'thinking about it' can mean that a woman wants to search her intuition, her sense of how she really "feels" about something.

Or, it can mean that she is reluctant and feeling a little bit pressured... so she may want a reason to back off to a safe space and then find a safe way to say yes or no - for instance by telephone.

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Dozy: 1 year ago
Good advice, as always. I've never hard problems with "I need to think about it." Maybe she does, or maybe it's a polite brush-off. In either case it's usually simple enough to work out.

Virginia, I bowed to pressure re that story you told John8715 about. I just posted it to my blog. It ends with the cleverest comment I've seen on Ask in all the time I've been here -- and that was from J.Hamilton. It's worth reading my stuff just to get down to his punch line.

http://dozyskaleidoscope.blogspot.com/2011/07/two-men-one-woman-drink-and-dance.html
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VirginiaL
VirginiaL: 1 year ago
Both John numerical AND JHamilton, their arrival on Ask has raised the fun level by an order of googol!
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Dozy: 1 year ago
Ah, you saw that post? Yes, they have.
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VirginiaL
VirginiaL: 1 year ago
Yup, stalking you again...
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VirginiaL
VirginiaL: 1 year ago
I cannot find the Google/Googol question today! Could it have gotten removed, for some reason?
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Dozy: 1 year ago
I couldn't find it either. You wouldn't think there'd be any reason for deleting it, unless its some kind of proprietary rivalry between Ask and Google.
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VirginiaL
VirginiaL: 1 year ago
Ah yes, I wonder...
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AudreyL.R.
AudreyL.R.: 1 year ago

She needs to think!=)

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NikiNinja
NikiNinja: 1 year ago | Last edited at 2:31PM on 7/17/2011

Shes being a tease? ?

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allitwist
allitwist: 1 year ago via iPhone

Either she isn't ready or no.. May wanna find out

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AmericanEagle385
AmericanEagle385: 1 year ago

It means she needs to think about it. Girls are pretty straight forward if it is a no she will say no if its a yes she will say yes.

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jaysoures
jaysoures: 1 year ago via iPhone

That means she is just not into..

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Bubblious
Bubblious: 1 year ago via iPhone

It's sorta like when your mother says. " we'll see "

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waiyego
waiyego: 1 year ago

It means she is not sure about the decision she about to make. So she has to figure out if she really want what she is about to decide.

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stb1953
stb1953: 1 year ago via iPhone

it means you need to think about it. don't read things into everything...

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r0sesarered
r0sesarered: 1 year ago

She means exactly what she says; she needs time to think about the thing, because maybe she wants to know about the advantages and disadvantages of that thing or someone and you have to wait.

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