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When someone on ASK is not the person you thought, and bad mouths you to other people, how can I stop it?

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OUCH...don't do this...play by higher standards. We know you're a good person and wouldn't believe something bad about you if we read it. Because everyone loves themselves a little "Candybar". 8)

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Miyuette
Green for kuuipo :)
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You're right. My bad. I love ya! Thanks for keeping me in check....
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green she is so sweet
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I would report it to ask.com

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Nice answer. :)
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green
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thank you guys!
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i think u can block them

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Miyuette
Blocking them doesn't do that much but they can still answer your questions and contact you through people's questions and answer under the commenting section.
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That's a good start. But all it does is keep them from directly following you.
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Miyuette
You can basically also say what kuuipo just mentioned. :)
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Miyuette

Think before you speak. Think before you act.You are already ahead of the game here. You have identified a trait that you wish to change. There is no such thing as a method to change. You just do it.Think before you speak. Think before you act.Repeat. If you blow it and fall back into badmouthing.Report them.

edit:referring to the person badmouthing.

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candybar
I didn't bad mouth, he did.
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Miyuette
I'm not talking about you candybar but I'm relating this to the person who is doing the badmouthing here.
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You're fine. :)
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Shankyu kuuipo! :)
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candybar
It's Mahola. I think... eek!
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Candy - lol - mahalo = thank you ;)
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Lol! "Mahalo nui loa!"
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I made that word up!xD
"Shankyu."
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Report them. This is a site for asking questions and answering them, not for drama.

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Thumbs up! (it took my other comment down) All said was b i n g o???
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..Thank you. owo
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Block them from following you.do it from the followed by list in your profile.

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That's what I would do.
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Incredibella

Block, report, flag every reply, they'll be gone soon enough.

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Glad you didn't leave
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candybar
Aww.
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partyboi

as a mature adult you should be able to talk to this person. Tell him you understand their will be people that don't like me and that is fine but don't talk negative about me.honestly I think you can't do anything besides find common ground about not talking about each other.if he doesnt agree let him be the immature one, alot of us know the truth you are a good person and people cant take that away from you.the mods in reality prob won't do anything.

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Awww, that's so sweet that you wanna protect me Candy!! Thanks!! But I wanna know who's bad mouthing me :)

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It was me...
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candybar
Nafta, ya did it again! That stupid grin on my face. Cut it out! I'm looking for a pity party! No, I'm not, yes candy, you are. No really, I'm not!
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(she's holding out on your thumb too...just saying...)
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candybar
Yes. Yes I am. Wait... I sound very confident don't I! I think I may have too much. I'll say goodnight and thank you guys! I love you all!
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Goodnight? But it's still early and we're just gettin started!
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Hic! Huh? We are? Hic!
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It's like 5 there, maybe her hubbies coming home...ooo la la...
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Funny!
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All great answers....ms candy... I personally think you are one of nicest sweetest kindess loving woman I have met on ask. I'm thankful to know u.... :)

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agreed
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Aww, Dustee, you're so awesome. Thanks.
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Just go along our merry way...Tra-la-la-la-la-la...it's a beautiful sunny day...Tra-la-la-la-la,...Hey look, a bird!...Tra-la-la-la-la...

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Z-z-z-z-z-z....
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Awe, my boring walk put her to sleep...Here Candy, I'll carry you...
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sunshine_gurl

Sometimes when you read something online it is misinterpreted by the person reading it. Think of any way it could be read and give the person the benefit of the doubt!!
<3

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That would be great. I think this may have been pretty straight forward though...Here's a green for you. 8)
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candybar
Been there, done that.
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