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What did I do wrong ? my bf is at the hospital and i call him n text him n call him to see how is he doing he call and broke up with me .

he doesnt want me to know which hospital cuz i dont get along with his sister ,Im always there for him but he is always an asshole to me treats me bad ,and I hardly see him lately cuz he is always working I know is true but I just dont understand what did I do wrong .He is really bad to me all the time but I love him were been together for a year and a half .Should I move on or give him space cuz he is sick and angry cuz he is in pain ?

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To quote you, "He is really bad to me all the time" There is your answer. You do not deserve to be treated badly, especially when you are acting out of kindness and concern. Lose the loser, and move on.

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Another green for gator!! :)
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In my opinion, considering the situation he is in you can give him space to think his decision and start appreciating you. However, if nothing is forthcoming after a while, it's time to move on as instead of being tied down. Good luck.

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Move on!

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if he's such an ahole then you didnt do anything wrong. just chill and find somebody better than him!!!

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Start talking to other guys and make him jealous if he really loves you he'll want you back <3

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If he's bad to you move on, whether it's 18 months or 18 days. Obviously something has happened. If he doesn't have the bal-s to be a man & explain why, after so much time together, he's not worth the heartache. Let him go. I'm sorry.

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your situation is quite unfortunate however i would let him go and find someone who really values you as a person and who will treat you like you deserve.

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well , if he was not with you in your bad times, you must not be with him in his. simple as that. a relation which has no love, cannot live long enough.

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obviously he doesnt care about u...just move on n if he calls u tell him why would u break up w me when im trying to see if ur ok i wonder wat hell answer to that...

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Do both and just stay away from him. I would just not bug him.

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Sounds to me he may not want u there because there might be more than just his sister he doesn't want u to see. I would call all the hospitals and find out what one he's in then go and do a little detective work. you may not like what u find but at least you'll get the truth and then u could let go more easily and move on with your life. Hey all's fair in love and war! God bless.

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His sister hates me to the point of fighting with me she is crazy .He does what ever the sister wants ,he lives with her and helps him with money she thinks we broke up a few months ago..
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Thank you all for your comments it helps me a lot Im moving on enough is enough.
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good to hear that someone finally gets it. good luck chica
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move on im sorry for what happened but just move on if he tries to get you back you need to say no and tell him y

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Maybe you're making a nuisance of yourself.

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I dont think thats the case but I rather just stay away from him thx
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MOVE on girl!

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