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nesiaandklumzee
nesiaandklumzee: 1 year ago via iPhone

Is it bad that my boyfriend hates talking about our problems he just likes getting over it

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Raffy206
Raffy206: 1 year ago | Last edited at 10:00AM on 7/18/2011

I think it is kind bad, because in my opinion the first step in solving problems is facing it, if you don't face your problems together, talked about it and tried to work on it and kept getting over it, problems will accumulates and that is a bad thing.

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Verne50
Verne50: 1 year ago

A relationship can't survive without communication.

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kshama113
kshama113: 1 year ago via iPhone

Yes it is doomed

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jflam
jflam: 1 year ago via iPhone

Men often don't like rehashing things the way girls do. It's not a bad thing, just different personalities.

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Jakespeare
Jakespeare: 1 year ago via iPhone

It's natural. No one wants to admit they are at fault. But it is also counterproductive to your relationship.

As said above, the only way to improve, is to overcome the obstacles. That doesnt happen when you sweep the dirt under the rug.

On the same note, however, you cannot dwell on past mistakes. There is always learning to be done from our past, but that is for us to do individually. Our past is our own teacher. Not reading material for those who would teach us.

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rachel_izME
rachel_izME: 1 year ago via iPhone

I don't see it as a problem, unless you can not react the same way. If you need to communicate to get over a problem, then he needs work on communication. However, relationships go both ways... So you can't always make him talk, sometimes you will have to just get over it, the way he does. Remember to choose your battles.

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AnthonyMM
AnthonyMM: 1 year ago

Yes. It is a bad sign because when two people are in a relationship, they need to be open to one another and always discussing about issues that concern them. Communication is very vital and you need to encourage him to open up when problems arise.

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