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Prettygurl123: 1 year ago

How do I tell a girl her boyfriend's a creep?

OK, this guy isn't really cheating unless you consider texting and talking to others girls in an obviously flirty way cheating. He was after me when he first started going out with her but no longer is but should I tell her and how? Because I have never talked to her before it seems hard and but feel she is being cheated and should know the truth but then again she looks so happy.

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Pottergrl98: 1 year ago | Last edited at 1:06AM on 6/13/2012

Don't bring it up unless he start to straight out flIrting with the girls. If he starts, just try going up th HIM and saying, your girlfriend could always use someone to talk to. If he is intentionally flirting, he might get embarrassed that you noticed. If it gets worse; I know it's not your boyfriend, but your friend has a right to know. Just say that people are saying that your boyfriend is sending weird messages to other girls. You might even go so far as to show her some of the messages. Just tell her that you want her to be happy, but you don't want this to get out of control. Like Isa2010 said: try not to bring it up. FlirtIng isn't really cheating, but if you're really close and it REALLY bothers you, then you can bring it up.

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Cjkenkel: 1 year ago

You don't. You mind your own business. Simple as that.

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Isa2010: 1 year ago

Maybe it be best to keep it to yourself just incase she doesn't believe you. If you're really close to her you can tell her. In my opinion.

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GruntSausage: 1 year ago

Technically it is her own business if he was flirting with her while he has a girlfriend

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wba2012: 1 year ago

Flirting is not cheating.

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Cjkenkel: 1 year ago

Word wba2012

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GruntSausage: 1 year ago

I know but if he is flirting she should at least tell his girlfriend because when you flirt you eventually cheat

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wba2012: 1 year ago

Not true. And it is none of there business. If someone tells her she will defiantly have a broken heart. How ever if he does not cheat it is not fair to him or her. If however he does cheat than in that case a good friend should tell. But at this point it is nothing more than just talking.

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wba2012: 1 year ago

Talking to other girls is not cheating. Having sexual relations with someone els when in a relationship is cheating.

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LoveTwiz: 1 year ago

well, if he is obviously flirting with other girls he isnt cheating but that doesnt mean that he wont in the future, she will get hurt, but then again she will blame it all on you. and start un-necessary "drama" if she hasnt caught it yet then there isnt anything you can say or do that will make her realize it now.

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cerebrogasm: 1 year ago via iPhone

My take, unlike other posters here, is based on seeing this behavior by guys again and again (usually teens) and the results. Lose him: he's just not that into you is not necessarily the reason - he's a player in practice - and he's on a fishing expedition - hunting more game - without thinking of how this will affect you. Selfish, egocentric, often highly insecure guys like this are not worth your time - find a guy that only has eyes for you.

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