I need someone to explain something to me (preferably girls)
so, this is a kind of weird relationship situation I'm in. due to growing up and doing our own thing, my relationship with my girlfriend has become a long distance one. a few weeks ago, her uncle died, he lived in Alaska, so she was gone a week for the funeral and wasn't able to make much contact. well obviously I missed talking to her re whole time. when she came back, I figured it would go back to normal, instead, the whole first week she was back, she ignored me. so after so many texts and calla weren't answered, I messages her on Facebook. once in her page though, I notice she had been uploading pictures of her hanging out with friends. so. messages her and explained that since she was able to be with friends, but not text me, it seemed she didn't want to talk anymore. the next day she answered my goodmorning text saying she was sorry for not answering and that she was having "cramps", ya know. so I accepted that and things went back to normal for a few days. today however, she seemed very upset, I asked why, and she said it was because she just read my message on Facebook and it made her mad. this is where I am now, she won't talk to me because I was worried. an I'm realizing something as well: she said she was cramping. so apparently she was cramping so bad that she couldn't use her thumb to text me, but at the same time she could hang out with friends the whole time and upload pictures to Facebook. so she was lying about why she didn't text me. why would she do that? anyone have any ideas?