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brittanysanswers: 11 months ago

How will I tell if "He is the one"?

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HarleyThorpe: 11 months ago

Assuming you were dating him, he'll apologize if he makes you mad, he'll be sweet (at least to you), he'll respect you and any habits you may have, however annoying they could be, and he'll tell you he likes/loves you.

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brittanysanswers: 11 months ago

thnks

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HarleyThorpe: 11 months ago

your welcome.

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Lol this actually sounds a bit too much like me.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

haha ur funny

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Thanks.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

soo whats uppp i havnt talked to you since i left for vaca

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

And I've been busy as well. So not much how about u?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

well yesterday sucked lol only thing keeping me here is my brother right now

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Sad to hear. I feel bad for you.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

please dont say that i hate it when people feel bad for me im not the one who has no shelter or is starving i hate when people feel bad for me when they could be helping the children with out thoes things

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Still, you make it sound like you're suffering. I can't help but pity that. Especially knowing that all I can do is talk to you. But don't get me wrong I certainly feel bad for the homeless and the starving as well.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i do suffer but id rather suffer alone and talking to me accually helps some because it clears my head and helps me think

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Well it's good to know I'm helping.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

ha omg guess what

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

I don't know, what?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i got a.......RED DINOSAUR

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Like a toy? Just what's the significance of that I'm really not getting it.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

no a washable tatoo lol my lil brother gave to me and said that he missed me when i came home from vaca lol

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Oh a tatoo. Wow did I ever misinterpret that. I bet it looks pretty cool.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

it is awesome its sooo tiny though im hyper i dont know why and im cooking hope i dont get burned :( but i luvs my dinosaur

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Are you ever going to get a real tatoo when you're old enough?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

yes just not a dinosaur lol its gonna be epic :P haha

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

If I would ever get a tatoo (which I won't, ever), it would be a drawing of a vein on my arm. The blood in it would become fire and it would go all the way up almost until my shoulder. Doesn't that sound awesome?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

guessss what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

haha yupss mine is gonna be angles holding a ribbon and have my two best friends names who died but guesss what

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

I'm gonna guess you're going to describe what your tatoo would be once or if you get it.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

no......I GOT ANOTHER DINOSAUR ITS BLUE

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Lol. That sounds amazing. But I never thought anyone could be so enthusiastic about a washable tatoo. Are you hyper right now?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

maybe haah i cant sit still lool my dinosaurs are best friends XD

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

ahjhh my brother just got me a MTDEW YAY

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Yep. You're hyper all right. I bet your dinosaurs are amazing.

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

You should take pictures of them.

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Is it that kind of mnt. dew with the batman thing?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

no its diet which is good bc it has zero calories i should take pictures of my dinos but my camera is dead haha i have caffine

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

You should get some batteries for your camera. Unless if you have another 1.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

tis chargeable but im too lazy to go find it lol haha my brothers are scared of me bc im yelling about my DINOSAURS and i keep singing sexy and i know it

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

LOL. That's so funny! How can you be lazy if you're so dang hyper though?

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

And how would they be scared of you?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i dont know ahhhhhhhhhhh i love mtn dew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Yeah mnt dew is awesome. I like root beer better though.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

:( i sad now

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

but rootbeer is decaffeinated thats not good but its amazing with ice cream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqTH5ll1StI
Makes sense.

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

I really don't like root beer floats.

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Are you sad bc you're out of mnt. dew?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

no im single and i hate it

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

LOOOOOOOOOOL HAHA :p

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

http://www.ask.com/answers/166199201/i-need-help-with-something-serious-answers-please?qsrc=3111 fist answer the profile picture ahhh i love it

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

You already broke up with him? Man that's sad. You were warned.
http://www.ask.com/answers/164669381/am-i-being-stupid

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

I hate being single too.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

no its just that he wont ttalk to me now so i assume its over

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

awwe i dont feel hyper now need more caffeine!

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Maybe he's just busy. And
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqTH5ll1StI
Need I remind you.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

but i luvs caffeine! i dont crash when on it i jst go back to normal awe im outa mtn dew

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

idk he was really sweet over the weekend when i was talking to him but he will do that and then not reply to me

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

I knew it. He doesn't truly care for you. Heck he might be cheating on you. If I were you I'd tell him he's on thin ice. And obviously when you drink more caffeine you'll get sadder about this. I'm sorry but, believe what you want.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

but every time i txt him he replies instantly but now that im home and not with my cousin i cant txt him so i have to talk to him online and he has baseball and i feel really stupid for believing anyone could care about me

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Well frankly I care about you. But before you make sure it's over, tell me. Does he fit into all of the answers of this question we're talking to eachother on?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i dont know maybe a few

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

A few? If he doesn't fit into them all then he isn't the one. Dump his a$$.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

idk i hate breaking up with people and i almost did the other day but then he got really sweet and said he loved me and im just too weak

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Please. For your sake. Break up with him. Even if you have to do it by text. You can't afford a broken heart again.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

either way id be hurt

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

But one way will hurt more. In fact, it should already hurt. You know deep inside that he's playing with your emotions. And you aren't weak Brittany. Remember the question you asked about people thinking you're weak?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i am weak and it didnt hurt until i started talking about it

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

http://www.ask.com/answers/161004121/why-do-people-think-im-week
Well I would disagree. Look at my answer.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i may not be weak in that but i am weak when it comes to this just never mind i should have kept it to myself

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

If you kept it to yourself you wouldn't have even been warned about te certain heartbreak. The worst part is I can't even ask you to stay strong.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

why do you care so much its my choice to be hurt or not

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

im sorry i shouldnt have said that

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

I'm trying to interveine because I can't stand to hear that you're suffering like this. And I don't understand why you choose to be hurt.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

but why cant you stand it

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

And it's okay. I just provoked you to anger that's all.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i dont normally get like that though i dont know what overcame me

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Because you're such a great friend, Brittany. I like you what can
I say?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

im not a grerat friend i got mad over something soo stupid

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

*great gosh dng it

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Believe me, you really are. Things are just tough for you right now. You should let all your emotions out once we're done talking.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

im sorry u r listening to me i just dont ever really talk about things

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Well frankly I've never had a conversation anywhere near this good in my whole entire life. You don't have to be sorry. If I didn't want to listen to you I'd find a way to end our conversation but I do.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

you are really sweet

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Thank you.

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

But you still aren't going to break up with him right?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i cant ill let God play it out how it is supposed to be played

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

You know you won't like the results as much as if you had listened to me. And so do I. But very well. I hope for your sake I was wrong about him.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

i kinda hope so too if he is like what you believe then idk i might just give up all together

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

No what you should do is give up for a while but not forever. That's exactly what my forget about romance question was all about.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

id prob give up forever and just focus on my goals in life and school and be a lonely cat lady

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Again, I don't know why you'd choose to be unhappy. Sure taking a risk often hurts for you but you shouldn't stop forever. Take me as an example. I have never dated once and I gave up searching but one day I'll search again. If I were like you then we'd both die lonely.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

ive always been alone im used to it

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Well that's just not true. You've dated before. Surely you had a little happiness in your life, even if it crumbled down.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

once and he died on valentines day

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Do you think he would've wanted you to give up?

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

I dont know hed prob rather i did instead of getting hurt so many times bc thats all my life has been since he died and thats what it was before i met him

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Have you ever seen titanic? Rose was devastated when Jack died but she promised to never let go. And she kept that promise. So I need you to be like Rose, Brittany. That's all you need to do.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

ive already lost that ability when i cut myself

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Well, I've tried my best to help you Brittany. Shame. Just know, there's still hope for you if you accept it. If you do, let me know.

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brittanysanswers: 10 months ago

ill try

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HarleyThorpe: 10 months ago

Thanks.

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Apophis: 11 months ago via iPhone

Because you'll want to spend every minute of every day with him and whenever he's not there you'll wish he was.

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brittanysanswers: 11 months ago

thx

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