i found mine by exploring stuff i like through meetup.com. its a website to connect together people who share interests. i like studying japanese and at a japanese practice session i met a great guy who also like languages! sooo... its like the saying, once you stop looking and just work on loving yourself
In the most natural way possible. By that I mean when you meet someone when you least expect to. While I was still dating I used to meet men I wanted to date at work, at a park or other public place. I've met them by chance at social gatherings with friends. Just keep smiling and being yourself, you'll get noticed as long as you stay out and about.