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Please help me, i want my long distence relationship to work!

i have been in a long distence relationship for the past month and my bofriend doesnt really talking to me as much as my ex's use too when we were dating .. and want to know how i can get him to talk to me? or how i can go without talking to him? so i dont seem so needy. i hope use can help but please try not to be mean :)

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It sounds like it might be fizzling out, or he's not into text,email, phone,whatever. Do you get the feeling he just doesn't like the form of communication, and he is the same when he sees you? How does he act when he's with you, does he want to see you? If not it might be over.

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he doesnt seem like he hates to text and stuff like that, but he is an uni student and he has work.... and yeah when we do talk he seems like he does want to see me but that is when we do talk
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Some guys just don't like to communicate via text, email. As long as he is ok when you see him I wouldn't worry. The downside is long distance relationships are near impossible to keep going, without good communication you don't have a great shot.
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thanks for your help :)
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dustee
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I hope it works out! : )
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Hi D!
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thanks so do i :) and yeah you give really good answers :)
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Aww thanks! : )
I really hope you figure it out. Sometimes it's better to think "black or white " than trying to read between the lines. Myself, if I want to be with someone, really speak to them, I'm going to do whatever it takes!!
Long distance is hard enough, the success rate is low, he has to keep it going. Maybe it's best and you end up finding a guy close by? : )
I hope you aren't discouraged by the honesty. Good luck!! ( it will be fine!!)
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text them

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When you talk to him next tell him that you enjoy talking to him but that he doesn't talk to you that much and you would like to talk more

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thanks but what if he thinks i am needy and i push him away?
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If he truly likes u enough to have a long distance relationship hell understand
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skype

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First off he wont be like your ex and dont compare the two, because they are two diff people. But just try and and talk to him about comminucating. Communicate on communicating. Ask if he likes to talk or text or tango or skype and set up a few days to video chat then try and text throughout the day if that helps. LD relationships can suck or be great its just a matter of you two making things work.

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