Are you kidding me? Yes! Why would your wife find any reason to share a bank account with her ex-husband? Even if they remain good friends, there is no reason under the sun for her to share a bank account with this man Is she needs to borrow money from him, and you're fine with that I suppose that's okay. I can not believe that as your wife, her name is on another man's check. I'm assuming this is the case because if they're sharing a bank account then it must be a joint account? I'm sorry to be so frank but you did ask. Do you realize that since your wife's name is on her ex-husband's account, she will also be liable for any illegal activities that go on with the account or liabilities put against it. I, personally would be very bothered by this, not just for moral reasons but also legal consequences. Sorry to be so bold.
Not really cuz it is not like they are sleeping with each other and she is just getting money from him that's all trust her ! :) My stepdad is also worried about he same thing but dont she loves you not him :P
If it were me I'd be bothered. The only reason I would be cool with it is if they had a child together and were sharing the account for child expenses, and it would be good that they get along well for the child's sake while co-parenting. If they don't have children, I find it kinda weird PERSONALLY. they can still be friends as long as its JUST an innocent friendship but I would personally want my husband to not have any assets with his ex if he had one. Think of it this way if they were just friends would friends go share a bank account together? In my opinion no they wouldn't. They need to move on and if he wants to lend her money as a friend I don't see anything wrong with that but not sharing assets. Most important thing is if you're uncomfortable then that's an issue and if I were your wife and you told me you were uncomfortable then I would take my name off the account. (Although i wouldnt do that in the first place). Its weird that while I was writing my long answer everyone else has the same feelings I do. everyone's right. it's disrespectful and I'm sorry you have to go through this bs
So by borrowing money from him I think it is showing you can't take care of her. I would be beyond mad....you're married! Why would they need to talk and share money with each other. They don't have kids together!