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My ex left me and went overseas. Before we broke up I brought presents for his family from overseas. Should I leave put it infrnt der house

first I went on a holiday then he went after me. after a 3 year relationship he texted me saying his not coming back. I brought presents for him and family. should I put it infrnt of his house so his mum can see what they lost

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Definitely not! It will seem like you want them to side with you and they will not appreciate the gesture.
Keep your dignity and stay quiet. Your ex is probably not worth it anyway.

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Good idea!!
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Sure why not!

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What do u reckon they will think when they receive the gifts
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if you feel strongly for his family then knock on their door and give them the gifts you want them to have (if you want them to have them ) dont leave them at the door nor try to hold anything over anyone and if he dont want you then forget him for there is a lot of good fellers that would love to have and cherish you

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Should I put give the gifts . What do u reckon they will think of went they receive the gifts
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No don't do it if it over its over he texted u and said I'm not coming back .... Way to respect you. I say rewrap and give to someone else!

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So true
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No way! Sounds like he wouldn't do it for you, so don't do it for him. Not worth it. x

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No. His mum already knows what they lost.

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How do u think that. It feels like ahe doesn't care
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You should still give them to them if it's a genuine gesture & you want to give them presents because you like them/enjoy spending time with them. If you're only going to give them to them to prove a point then NO NO NO!! Do NOT do this to yourself. I know you're hurt, mad, feeling betrayed & just want to go anything to get under his skin but to be honest they're just going to think you're immature, mean, rude & unfortunately a bit pathetic (sorry). This is not the way to go about this. Besides, what did his family do to you? They can't make him be with you even if they adore you. Don't make a fool of yourself, have some pride & self respect...

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No. Return them to the place you bought them and buy something for yourself.

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Ok since you already had a post on here about how he left and isn't coming back and his mom won't answer you on facebook it seems like they could care less whether they get your gifts. I'd either return them and buy myself a nice F U gift or donate them to charity.

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