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How do i let her know i like her?

im getting pretty damn pissed and upset about it.....no matter how sweet or nice i am,she doesnt want me and se likes someone else,nothing new,it always happens to me over and no girl ever is interested in me even if they are single.......i want to change and be all mean,i get NOTHING from been nice and myself..NOTHING but pain and heartbreak. what am i doing wrong i know been to nice.

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If she doesn't want you, and she is with/likes somebody else then I would just advise to let it go. You don't want to look like the guy that is trying to "interfere" in someone else's relationship. Everybody has a specific type of person that they want, that is maybe why it seems like you've been "rejected" and girls aren't interested, you're probably going for the wrong girls. And DO NOT change to be all "mean"... Because some girl who DESERVES you will have such a great boyfriend...
** It's not true that nice guys finish last. Nice guys are winners before the game even starts.**
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its not only her! its about every girl i meet! all are eather taken or they want to be my friend! im pissed off about it so much!!! so damn wrong! iv been nice,iv been kind..well im not anymore.
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Nerdgurl456
I like your quote. It's slightly cliche but I'm gonna use that sometime haha.
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Well then they dont deserve you, because ONE day they going to be asking why they cant get a "nice" guy and someone will regret not giving you a chance.
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i gave up.i gave up searching and searching like a blind guy for that love i deserved and need.............all girls gave me nothing NOTHING but pain....all i ever was is nice and kind,sweet..........i do not get what i do wrong..whats wrong with been myself......im not ment for love i guess!!:((pain after pain is all my damn life is. just sadnes. il change il be mean and take my anger out like this.
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I'll be your girlfriend! You seem like a keeper.
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ok lala
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how u doing lala
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Walk up to her when she is alone and tell her straight that you like her, if she is anything like me she is waiting for you to do a little more than be kind to her

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hello..thank u but i gave up il just be hurt.
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i tried everything..no matter what i do its never enough. girls are to hard to please and to hard to get ,at least for me,eather they are taken or they always tell me lets be freinds.u have no idea how tired i am of that nonsense. whatever now i wont be nice longer
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Yup that's how we are, but you are a guy and you have to step us and be aggressive and not give up
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Nerdgurl456

Listen, if this girl likes someone else, just leave her alone. Don't make this harder on her. All you can do is be her friend. At this point in time, I think you've let her know you like her enough. There's a reason this always happens to you. Maybe you just aren't ready for a relationship yet if you can't handle this. I hope everything works out for you and I hope you find "the one" or at least a girlfriend. Good luck!

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I agree
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i dont give a damn about any girl any damn longer.EVERY girl i meet eather likes someone else or just wants FREINDSHIP with me.im sooo tired with that nonsense!!!im done looking!!
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Don't give up. I'm sorry you feel this way. You'll find someone some how
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go sit next to her at lunch and say stuff like "i like you",your pretty or something like that

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Just tell her that you like her. just dont come on as a creeper. Ssssssssss....(kidding)

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im done..i gave up looking..every girl ends up hurting me.enough.
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Nerdgurl456
STUFF FREAKING SAYING THAT!!! You know why girls don't want to date you? Because they probably think your too whiny. BE PATIENT! We are trying to offer you help here. You are just saying
"All every girl does is give me pain" etc. well you know what? You Could just say "thanks I'll try" and move on. You don't have to be so depressing and mad at the world.
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i say just walk up to her an ask her if she would like to hang out JUST AS FRIENDS then when you two are completely alone tell her you like her then ask her to be your girlfriend if she says no then im sorry its just not ment to be with this girl SORRY >_< if you dont like my advise then sorry im just trying to help

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Leave it alone. She likes someone else. Concentrate more on your attitude and communication skills. You're young and need time to mature.

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forget that.EVERY girl i ever liked and met ended up doing it to me over,they all want to be my friend or they are taken,i only get hurt..what am i doing wrong?iv just been nice to them and kind and honest...i guess il change now!!!il be mean and not nice as been nice doesnt help me!
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Please don't do that Toy. You WILL find the girl of your dreams. I promise. I was 32 when I met my husband (married now 26 years) I have faith in you to keep doing the right thing. Patience is the key okay? After 32 years, I'm glad I waited for my guy.
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My friend i been reading. Answers and comments you seem to be contradicting yourself. if your like me and done searching that means you are done. try being happy and content with yourself. As for four your question. Just tell her she may say yes or no. And again like me she say no. Pain is a part of life i know it suck. If you try being mean you will just be miserable. Stay strong.

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ok thx
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No problem man.
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u angry too?
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Not anymore I've discovered that being angry all the time is no way to live. I mean girls just want to be "friends" and hang out but if your mean NOBODY will like you trust me i work at a therapeutic pool and I see people who just decided to be mean. No body wants to see them and i mean why they just fuss i don't know about you but that's not the life for me beside without a girl you can get some pretty awesome stuff. I don't know what wrong with being alone? I guess is not socially acceptable. Screw that I'm a rebel!!! Have fun be happy.
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A wise person once said 'You can't make somebody love you, you can only make yourself a person who can be loved' Chances are she already knows you like her. My suggestion is to stop acting like it so much. I'm not saying turn into a douche. I'm saying maybe if you stop giving her all your attention, she'll start to miss it and maybe open her eyes about her feelings for you. Chicks like a chase too sometimes. Try to be a playful challenge.

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hi
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Hi :) How's it goin?
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i dono..u?
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It's going...
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Don't try to be too sweet like, telling someone u love them on every single question would probably intimidate her

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haha great advice he emailed me and swore at me like never before!
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i dont care,i am mad for reason and angry too.thats not good advice.screw that. and i am not trusting anyone again
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Nerdgurl456
yep. nobody likes someone thats too clingy...
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im not clingy.just nice.thats how i am./.and do not provoke me.im a allright guy.
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you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink. i know you are having problems with sooo many girls that you like and none of them like you back but be patient trust me a gal will come to you one day, just take a break.

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Here is the way i would say it:
"Alright (Her name here), I am getting sick and tired of waiting for you to notice all of the signs I've dropping so i'm just going to tell you straight to your face. I like you, like like you. So there. What do you say?"

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