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Why do some men talk down to their wife after they are married?

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Because they take the marriage for granted, and history has proven that if they don't change their behaviour they are in no danger of being married for very long.
Men & women need to treat their partners with the utmost respect, and cherish the wonderful thing that they have together, just imagine if something happened and all of a sudden that person wasn't there any longer, how would they feel about the loss.
Pretty bad I imagine, best not to break something and then try to fix it, it may not get put together the way it was the first time, and may not work as well either...

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Because they feel superior to a woman, and take that headship for granted.

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It's a pride thing.

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Because they are insecure, and figure that if they make their wife insecure she won't leave him. Answer me this. Why do some women liked being talked down to by guys?

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I think they feel that they have an official relationship, so they can treat the other however they like and still be with them.

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Their wives put up with it after the first time they do it. Therefore they feel it is permissible.

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It is a learned trait

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they are a douche

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correction: they can only aspire to even be this
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Easy there - it goes both ways. Lots of dudes are watchin' The Bachelorette right now - whimpering for a sneak peak at ESPN during a commercial and praying that they might finish the night with a happy ending.

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SavoryDave saves the savoryday. Great answer
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They take their wives for granted, but then if you allow it to happen then and you just put up with it maybe they deserve

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Because they are insecure, low self-esteem. Treating someone like that makes them feel like they're superior. But instead it proves them otherwise.
Also the person who answered a learned trait is right on! They see it happening in the home as a child and see it as normal. Male and female both.

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