Why would our ten month old son be scratching his neck/ears when teething & having a tantrum about not being with daddy? Stress?
He could be reacting to the pain of teething, he could have an ear infection, he could just be tantrumming. I'd start with a trip to the doc to rule out the ear infection.. Good luck..
For the scratching part maybe he is finding his hands. That's what baby's do, you should put socks on his hands.